Wedding Party
Lainey Davis
Maid of Honor
Our babygirl, with more nicknames than we can count: pooks, squish, sassafras, always shows up in her truest form. Sunglasses on, graham bunnies in hand, clutching her Louise (Weezy), and acting like she runs the place… which, to be fair, she absolutely does. Her personality can fill an entire room. Lainey has brought so much laughter and light into our lives, turning small moments into memories we cherish and stories we’ll tell forever. We truly can’t imagine our lives without her and her perfectly sassy attitude.
Lily Matthews
Bridesmaid
Lily and Shelbi’s friendship has grown over eight years of laughter, late nights, questionable choices, and always showing up for each other. We’ve celebrated milestones, made it through chaotic moments, and collected memories that constantly remind us how lucky we are. From disasters we turned into stories to the hangovers we definitely earned to every “just one more drink” night (Whiskeys… iykyk), we’ve seen each other at our best and our messiest. I couldn’t be more grateful to have a best friend like Lily. We’ve perfected the art of being slightly too tipsy, blasting Pretty Girl Rock during the pregame car ride, and being completely inseparable through it all.
Kami Graul
Bridesmaid
Kami and I have been best friends since 9th grade, long enough to have collected an entire highlight reel of memories, from after-school hangouts to roadtrips. We’ve grown up side by side, cheering each other on through every big change and every small meltdown. She’s the friend who’s seen every version of me. Having her by my side for the wedding feels like bringing a piece of our entire history into this moment.
Caroline Kirkland
Flower Girl
Our ray of sunshine, our sweet niece: Caroline! She has been patiently waiting to be a flower girl in our wedding for four years, which, in kid time, is basically a lifetime. Her excitement, her joy, and her little heart make this day even more special, and we couldn’t imagine walking down the aisle without her leading the way.
Fred Lane
Best Man
My dad is my best man, and truly, he always has been. He’s the one who’s guided me, supported me, and taught me the lessons that shaped who I am. Whenever I need direction, encouragement, or just someone to listen, he’s the first person I go to. Having him by my side as my best man isn’t just meaningful, it’s an honor. I couldn’t imagine this day without him standing right there with me.
Brian Kirkland
Groomsman
Although Brian would much rather be at home reading a book right now, he is so graciously here to stand by my side. We’ve been brothers-in-law for 11 years, which means he’s had plenty of time to prepare for being part of this day, even if he didn’t exactly sign up for the spotlight. But true to form, he showed up with quiet loyalty, dry humor, and that steady presence we all count on. I’m grateful to have him up here, even if his bookmark is waiting patiently for his return.
Kayla Kirkland
Officiant
Our brother–sister relationship is truly unmatched. Whenever I need advice, Kayla shows up exactly where and how I need her, no questions asked. And even though she’s spent 28 years dealing with me being the favorite (heheh), she’s always been my biggest cheerleader. No one else could officiate this day with the perfect mix of sincerity, humor, and heart the way she can. She was made for this role, and I’m so grateful to have her standing with me.