We kindly ask that our guests dress in a formal wear/ black tie optional. For men, this includes a suit and tie. For women, this includes floor-length gowns or sophisticated cocktail dresses. Please refrain from wearing white, ivory, or anything that may appear/photograph white.
Please RSVP as soon as possible. The last day RSVPs will be accepted is January 15 , 2026. If a guest does not RSVP by that date, it will be assumed the guest cannot attend.
While we love your little ones, our wedding is adults-only. We hope this can be a fun night out for you to relax and celebrate with us!
We have a room block at Lakeside Inn with a 10% discount—just use the code GARDNER when booking. More lodging info is on the Travel tab!
Please refer to your invitation. If a plus-one was included, their name will appear or the invite will say “and Guest.” If you’re unsure, feel free to reach out!