You can RSVP via our wedding website. Simply click on the RSVP tab, enter your name, and indicate your attendance.
Please RSVP by Friday 27th March 2026 to ensure we can accommodate everyone comfortably.
If you need to modify your RSVP, you can do so by using the Edit RSVP option on this website, or email Andrea directly at andreajaneshaw@gmail.com.
We recommend arriving at the ceremony venue around 30 minutes ahead of the ceremony start time to ensure you have enough time to make your way to the ceremony space and find a seat.
There is a short 10-15 minute drive between our ceremony and reception venues. Guest transport will be provided between the venues, leaving the Ulster Museum at approximately 4:30pm.
For guests who may be driving to the event, on-street parking is available near the Ulster Museum. Overnight parking is available in the Saint Anne's Square car park, which is a five minute walk from the reception venue and a short drive from the ceremony venue.
We’re having an unplugged ceremony, so we kindly ask guests to keep phones and cameras tucked away until after. Thank you!
We kindly ask guests to dress in cocktail attire. For women: Cocktail or occasion dresses, dressy jumpsuits and separates. For men: Shirts with suits or blazers and trousers. Ties are welcome but optional. Please avoid jeans, trainers, and very casual clothing.
If your invite says “and guest”, yes! Otherwise, due to limited venue space, we can only accommodate those formally invited on your wedding invitation. Thank you for understanding!
Regrettably due to number restrictions we will not be able to accommodate any children.
We'll be serving cake during the post-ceremony drinks reception, followed by a sit-down dinner with a choice of starter, main and dessert. We will also have evening food for those attending the late-night festivities.
When you RSVP, please let us know if you have any dietary restrictions, and we’ll do our best to accommodate them.
Your presence at our wedding is what matters most to us. However, if you would like to give a gift, our home is already full of love, laughter and furniture, so we would greatly appreciate a contribution towards a piece of art for our home and our honeymoon.
If you would like to honour us with a gift, you can have it delivered to our home at 8 Oakfield Park Close, Newtownabbey, BT37 0AD. There will also be a wedding card box at our reception and we can provide bank details if preferred, just text or email one of us!
Feel free to email Andrea at andreajaneshaw@gmail.com - we’re happy to help!