FAQs
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What is the Dress Code
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Evening Garden Party Please wear something that will make you feel cool (both literally and figuratively), comfortable and confident. One bride will wear a dress and the other will wear a suit. Anything you might describe as "smart" or "dressy" casual will be fine, but if photo references would be helpful, please see the following Pinterest board. https://pin.it/6GWCThnNz
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What kind of food or beverages will be served?
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In part, we have chosen our venue because of their Chef's locally sourced, seasonal menus. As a result the exact details are yet to be determined but we will post here as soon as we finalize the menu. Please note, that because neither bride drinks alcohol, this will be a dry wedding. Instead, a wide variety of sparkling waters, sodas, and mocktails will be offered.
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Can I bring (insert person, pet, or otherwise here)
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If they were not listed on your invitation or sent one directly - no
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How is a wedding for two women going to be different?
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+one bride - one groom
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Can I wear a white, mostly white, off white, or ivory dress to a lesbian wedding?
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No
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Can I break some other element of standard western wedding etiquette because this is a lesbians' wedding?
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No, you cannot.
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Will either Bride be offended that I or we cannot attend this wedding for financial, health, travel, school, or literally any other reason?
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No, not at all. We love you and your invitation was an invitation, not a summons. We will miss you, but look forward to celebrating our happy news with you at another time.
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Should I bring a gift?
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Your presence is the best gift of all! Gifts are not expected or required but if you would like to give a gift please see our registry or consider a cash contribution.