If I tell it (and I am telling it on this website), I met Deidree the summer of 2008 at a Torchbearers meeting. Our meeting was in passing as I was briefly introduced by a mutual friend. When she tells the story, she met me 8 years later! Once we connected more substantially, we became inseparable. She is my soulmate, my once-in-a-lifetime person. My lobster.