FAQs
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How do I RSVP?
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You can RSVP through our wedding website by clicking on "RSVP" tab. Or you may RSVP by scanning the QR code in your in invitation.
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Can I bring someone? Do I have a plus one included in my invitation?
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Unfortunately no. Due to wedding venue size and location, we have a limited guest count. Your invite will be made out to "(Your Name) and (Guest Name)" if a plus one has been given to you. Thank you for understanding!
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What if I don't RSVP in time?
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If you haven't RSVP'ed in time, you will be marked as "not attending". We would love celebrating with you, however, we have to provide an exact guest count to our vendors and venue and cannot accept late RSVP's. (This unfortunately means you will are not allowed to show up to our special day. There will be no seating, food, or drink accommodations for you).
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What should I do if I cannot make it?
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You will definitely be missed! If you cannot attend our wedding, please indicate "Will NOT attend" on your RSVP so we can plan accordingly. If you have already RSVP'd "Attending", but find that you will not make it, please notify Lauren (Shai's mother) as soon as you are aware.
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Are kids allowed?
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Unfortunately no. We love and adore our lil cousins and/or your children, however we have decided to keep our ceremony and reception an adults-only event with the exception of our nieces and nephew. We encourage you to use our wedding as a "night out"! We appreciate you making prior arrangements so you can celebrate with us. Pstt, we also have an open bar!
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What is the dress code? Colors and textures?
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We'd love to see our family and friends get dressed up for our big day! Murrieta gets hot in July and this is a outdoor venue. We encourage cocktail attire in romantic colors and earth tones. Textures such as silk, satin, linen, etc. Please click on the tab "Wedding Guest Attire Inspo" for more examples.
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What should I not wear?
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We kindly ask that you avoid wearing denim and red. Ladies please NO white. Also our venue is completely outdoors on a grass surface; please be mindful of your heels. Gentlemen may wear cream, white, or ivory shirts.
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Where is the ceremony and reception taking place?
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The ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception will be help on-site at the wedding venue.
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Can I take photos and videos during the ceremony?
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We kindly as that you do not have your phones or cameras out during the ceremony. Our photographer and videographer will be capturing the ceremony, and we don't want any phones in our photos. Feel free to capture all your pictures during the cocktail hour and reception.
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Where do I park?
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Our venue includes free valet parking.
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Is there an open bar?
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Yes, the drinks are on us! Wine, beer, cocktail , mocktails and more.