FAQs
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How do I RSVP?
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You can RSVP via our wedding website. Simply click on the RSVP tab, enter your name, and indicate your attendance.
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What date should I RSVP by?
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We kindly ask that all guests RSVP by Sept 1st in order to get an accurate headcount for our venue and caterer. In the event that you need to cancel past Sept 1st, please let Vanessa and/or Shahid know directly.
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Are plus ones and children allowed?
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Unfortunately we are not allowing plus ones at this time, unless already communicated. Children are welcome! But likewise only children of families who have already been directly invited.
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What is the dress code?
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The dress code is semi-formal. Cultural attire is also acceptable, i.e Hispanic/Afghan/Indian. We would like to encourage our guests to come in colorful attire, and please refrain from wearing black/white. Thank you!
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What is the wedding day itinerary?
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We have scheduled for the ceremony to begin promptly at 4PM, with the cocktail hour and reception to immediately follow.
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What time should I arrive at the venue?
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If participating in the ceremony, we kindly ask that guests arrive at the venue by 3:45PM in order to find their seats and get situated. If only participating in the cocktail hour and reception, we suggest arriving around 5:15PM.
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Are the ceremony and reception in the same place?
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Our afternoon ceremony and cocktail hour will be outdoors in the garden, while the reception will take place indoors. Guests will walk to the garden on paved pathways to take their seats, and then walk roughly 15ft to the indoor reception area. There will be ADA parking available for those who may need it.
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What if it rains?
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We know we run the risk of weather interference in late November, so if reports call for rain, the ceremony and reception will both be held indoors
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Can we give cash or other gifts?
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Gifts are more than welcomed, however not required! Please take a look at our registry to support the beginning of our life together :)
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Have you reserved blocks of rooms at one or more hotels?
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We are in the process of negotiating rates with a few hotels in the area. We plan to have the hotel blocks available in July. Please check back for more information soon!
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Can I take photos during the wedding?
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We are requesting guests not take photos on any device during the ceremony as we have hired a professional photographer to capture our special moment. However, guests may take any and all photos during the reception.
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What is on the menu?
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We will be offering a mix of Afghan and Mexican cuisine. There will be vegetarian options available. All meat served will be Halal.
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Will there be alcohol served?
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We will not be providing alcohol during the wedding.