FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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April 11th, 2026. Please reach out to Adam or Shae to RSVP or the RSVP link in our website. Please note that our venue does have a max guest count so having our guest RSVP is very important as well as it is helpful for the coordination for food. If we do not receive your RSVP and reach our max unfortunately we will not be able to have you attend. Adam - (209) 812-9173 / Shae - (971) 261-7250
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Can I bring a Plus One?
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As much as we would love to have as many people as we can come celebrate with us, our venue does have a max guest count that we need to stick to. People who have been given a plus one will be aware once their invitations are received
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Can we bring our kids?
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We absolutely love your little ones but due to our venue restrictions and set up we think it would be best to have this be an adults night out!
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What should I wear?
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Our venue is a rustic but beautifully cleaned up barn so we would appreciate you all to dress up with us as we celebrate our love! We also acknowledge being comfortable is also important and We want you to come ready to dance! We do ask to please steer away from White, Dusty Blue and Forest Green so our Wedding Party as well as Adam and Shae can have their moments!
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Will there be Dinner?
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Yes! We are having a buffet style dinner serving Pulled Pork and Chicken with a few different sides provided by Lesa and Dusty McDonald
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Will there be parking?
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Yes! There will be parking but as mentioned before it is a smaller venue so if possible and you are able to carpool with family or friends also invited, please do! Please arrive to the venue a little early to ensure you are parked and find a seat before the ceremony begins.
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Is there a hotel block to stay in?
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We did not reserve any hotel blocks as we wanted everyone to have the choice of where to stay. The venue is in Dallas, Oregon so we would recommend staying in the Dallas, Salem or McMinnville area.
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Will there be alcohol?
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We have decided we will be having a dry wedding to respect some of our families journeys in sobriety. We kindly ask you please respect this decision and do not bring any alcohol on the venue property at all. If anyone does bring alcohol onto the property they will be respectfully asked to leave. We promise it will still be a good time! Other drinks will be provided.
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Do I have to bring a gift?
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It is absolutely not expected for anyone to gift us anything as your attendance to our wedding already means the world. If you do decide you would like to gift something, we have attached a few registries and have Shae's Venmo for anyone that would like to contribute to their Honeymoon @Shae_Bland. The couple greatly appreciates you more than words can explain!