FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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Please RSVP no later than June 20, 2026. While we would love to see you all there, any RSVPs received after this date will be counted as not attending. RSVP information will be included in the formal invitation.
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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The ceremony will begin promptly at 5pm. We recommend arriving at least 30 minutes early to allow every guest to find their seat - and to enjoy some pre-wedding champagne!
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Is there a dress code?
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We kindly ask that you join us in black tie attire - but don’t hold back! We encourage you to embrace color, glamour, and bold, extravagant style. Think of it as your chance to dress to the nines and have fun with it. We can’t wait to see how you make it your own!
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Can I bring a date?
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We’re so excited to celebrate with our closest family and friends! To preserve the intimate nature of our day, we’re only able to accommodate the guests listed on your invitation. We hope you understand, and we can’t wait to celebrate with you!
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Are kids welcome?
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We love your little ones, but we have decided to make our wedding an adults-only celebration. We hope this allows all our guests to relax and enjoy the evening with us. Thank you so much for understanding!
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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?
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Yes! Please let us know within your RSVP if you require dietary accommodations
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Do you have any hotel recommendations?
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If you plan to stay overnight (highly encouraged!), please stay within our room block at the resort! We have held enough rooms for everyone through the weekend. To book your accommodations, please call Alderbrook directly and mention the Boshaw wedding.
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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?
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All events will be taking place on resort property. A map will be provided upon arrival with further details on the specific location of festivities.
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Are pets allowed?
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As much as we (and Shadow!) love your furry friends, our wedding festivities will be pet-free. Our venue and hotel are dog friendly if you’d like to bring them for the weekend, but we kindly ask that they sit this party out. Thank you for understanding, Shadow sends his love! If you do plan to bring your dog, please ensure you request a dog-friendly room when booking.