FAQs

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Do I have to RSVP?

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YES! This is the only way we can keep track of attendance. If you fail to RSVP, then we will accept that as a formal decline and will not be able to accommodate you on the day of.

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by the date specified on the invitation. Once the RSVP portal closes, we will not be accepting anymore guests.

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Is there a dress code?

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Yes, we would love to see you at your best. The dress code is Dressy Casual to Cocktail Attire. Please refrain from wearing White, all black, No sweatpants, flip flops, hats or leggings. Proper attire is required.

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Is there parking available?

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There will be plenty of free parking available.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Our Celebration is strictly RSVP only. We will only be able to accommodate those listed on the invitation.

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Are you registered? Where?

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Yes, we are registered. We have created a honeymoon fund you can contribute to. If you would prefer to honor us with a physical gift, then you can find our registry on Amazon: Shada Bowers & Mari Starling

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What if I RSVP and can't attend anymore?

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We invited you because you are someone special to us in our hearts. We understand that uncontrollable issues do occur. We do ask that you please inform us as soon as possible. We appreciate your honesty versus a no show!

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What happens if I do not RSVP?

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NO RSVP, NO ENTRY! We hate to turn away family and friends, but to have the right amount of food and seating, we need to have an accurate head count. Please be mindful and courteous by submitting your RSVP by deadline.

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Is the venue smoker friendly?

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The venue is NOT smoker friendly. Please ask for the designated smoking areas. Smoking within the venue will be grounds for removal.

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What time should I arrive for the wedding reception?

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We kindly ask guests to arrive by 12:30 PM and be present no later than 12:50 PM.

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Is there a hashtag?

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Yes! Please use the below when posting. #OnceUponAStarling