FAQs

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What is the dress code?

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We ask all guests to wear formal - black tie attire in a neutral color scheme (such as browns, grays, black) Please AVOID the following colors: bright/neon colors, pastel colors, white, light creams and champagne/taupe (bridal party color). Men: Tuxes/Suits, dress pants, dress shirts. Please AVOID jeans, shorts and other casual wear. Women: Tea to floor length dresses, pant suits, skirts and other formal attire. Please AVOID jeans, leggings and other casual wear.

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What time should I arrive?

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The ceremony will begin promptly at 4:00 PM. Guests are asked to arrive no later than 3:50PM to ensure a timely start. Late arrivals after 4:00PM will not be permitted to enter the ceremony and will be asked to wait until cocktail hour which will be immediately following the conclusion of the ceremony.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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To allow for an intimate celebration, we are only accommodating guests whose names are specifically listed on the invitation. We kindly ask that only those named attend, as we are unable to accommodate additional guests or plus ones. If a plus one has been extended, it will be clearly indicated alongside your name on your RSVP & on your invitation. Thank you so much for your understanding, and we truly look forward to celebrating with you!

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Are children invited?

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While we adore your children, we have chosen to make our wedding and reception an adults-only event, with the exception of our flower girl & ring bearer. We truly appreciate your understanding!

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Can I take photos?

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We will be having an UNPLUGGED ceremony. We kindly ask that all phones and cameras be turned off and put away during our ceremony so everyone may be fully present as we share this special moment and say “I do.” Your presence and attention mean the world to us. Our INCREDIBLE professional photographers will be capturing the ceremony, and we promise to share those memories with you! After the ceremony, we warmly invite you to take photos and videos throughout the remainder of the celebration!

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When is the RSVP deadline?

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We kindly ask that all RSVPs be submitted by Saturday, May 23rd, 2026. In order to provide our vendors with a timely and accurate headcount, any RSVPs not received by this date will be automatically marked as “Not Attending,” and a seat will not be reserved for you. If you have any questions or experience any difficulty submitting your RSVP, please feel free to contact us at kochelwedding2026@gmail.com

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Do I need to make a dinner selection online?

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To keep things simple, guests will not be selecting a dinner option in advance. A thoughtfully curated menu will be prepared for everyone to enjoy on the day of the celebration. If you have any food allergies, dietary restrictions, or sensitivities, please don’t hesitate to reach out and let us know ahead of time—we want to ensure every guest feels comfortable and well taken care of!