In a world turned upside down by the COVID-19 pandemic, Sendy and Joe found solace in each other through a dating app. It’s truly heartwarming to reflect on how, amidst the anxiety and isolation that enveloped so many during that time, they began exchanging texts in March. After months of nurturing their connection from a distance, they finally met for their first date on July 19, 2020, in Forest Hills, Queens. Sendy wanted to encourage Joe, a city guy, to explore life beyond Manhattan. Their first date turned out to be a beautiful experience filled with deep conversations and genuine bonding. It felt like they both longed to embrace this newfound connection, and the chemistry between them was undeniable—a bright spot in a challenging world. The joy they found in each other’s company led them to plan a second date on Sendy’s birthday, July 24, just a week later. This quick decision highlighted how rapidly they were falling for each other, offering a glimpse of hope and connection during a time when many felt so deeply alone.

Joe proposed to Sendy on May 5, 2022, in the picturesque setting of Bryant Park, right in the heart of New York City. This special day not only marked their engagement but also aligned with the festive celebrations of Cinco de Mayo, making it even more memorable. However, shortly after the proposal, Sendy faced the difficult decision of returning to Indonesia, leaving both of them with mixed emotions. Determined to deepen their connection, Joe made the journey to Indonesia to meet Sendy’s family for the first time, an experience that held significant importance for both of them. Joe embraced the opportunity to immerse himself in Sendy’s culture, sharing stories and laughter with her loved ones, which strengthened their bond. As the months passed, time seemed to slip by quickly. They eagerly planned their wedding, wanting to honor both of their backgrounds. Finally, on February 16, 2024, they celebrated their marriage in a beautiful ceremony surrounded by family and friends in Indonesia. Just two months later, on April 15, 2024, they exchanged vows once more in a simple but meaningful ceremony at City Hall in New York City. Now, as they reflect on their journey, Joe and Sendy have been married for over a year and a few months, cherishing the love and partnership they have built together while navigating the adventures that come with married life.