It is a country wedding jeans and boots are acceptable but you can dress up more if you would like!
There will be no alcohol of any kind. If you are caught with alcohol you will be immediately asked to leave no questions asked!
You can get there at whatever time you would like. If you come when the wedding party gets there do not be mad if you are not being invited into the rooms, they are for the wedding party only. If you happen to get there during the ceremony please be quiet and respecful after all, you were the one that was late.