Questions

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Wait, you're married?!

Answer

Yes! After four years of engagement through the worst of Covid, we eloped in a civil ceremony with only three witnesses on October 5, 2023. We wanted to wait to share vows and celebrate with all of you, and that's what we're doing now!

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Wait, you're queer?!

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You know this. If this is a surprise to you, please keep your celebrations quiet.

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What are your pronouns?

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Ben: he/him/his Seb: they/them/theirs

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Gifts? Registry? Kitchen things??

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Please don't buy gifts! Your presence is a gift.

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Should we bring our kids?

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Children of all ages are very welcome at both events. If you like, there are additionally kid-centric spaces on the same floor. Talk to us if you have any concerns, and I'm sure we can help!

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What is the venue?

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The venue is a large lounge room, a terrace, and a large kitchen area, all on the 9th floor of our apartment building. Guests will be able to move between the spaces.

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Can I give a speech about how lovely you two are for each other?

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There will be time for speech provided. Embarrassing anecdotes are acceptable.

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Can I give a speech about something contentious?

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Maybe. Ask us BEFORE the event.

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Can I give a speech about how funny it is that two AMAB folks are getting married?

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No. Why would you ask that? What's wrong with you?