FAQs

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Are our kids invited?

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Regrettably, it is a 16yo+ event. Thank you for understanding!

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Will there be food?

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Yes, there will be canapés, light bites, bowls, and desserts. We are not organizing a sit-down dinner.

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Is there an open bar?

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Yaaasss, queen!

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When should I RSVP by?

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As soon as possible but, ideally, no later than 28 February 2026. Please reach out separately if you need more time.

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Can I give a toast at the reception?

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YES! In fact, we encourage our guests to 'claim their 2 minutes'. Whether it is a toast, a song, a cheeky PowerPoint presentation, an art performance, or a lip-synch battle for your life, we want you to grab the mic and share your love...just make sure that you let us know asap and keep it to 2 minutes :)

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Can I bring a +1?

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Your invitation will indicate that.

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What's the dress code?

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There is no mandatory dress code. We want you all to have fun, and we want you to wear whatever will let you unleash your authentic self and let you dance the night away! Obviously, a touch of fabulous will get you noticed!

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Can I get you a gift?

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Your presence is a gift! That said, if your parents instilled guilt feelings in you and you cannot show up empty handed at a party, then we have a couple of options for you! Option 1 - donate to one of the charities we love and support (also listed in the Registry section): A) HRC: https://give.hrc.org, B) LCYC: https://lcycwa.org/donate, C) NWIRP: https://nwirp.org/donate/ Option 2: we have set up a registry on the website with 'Luna's College Fund'...aka, our honeymoon fund :) If you are in the US, you can use Venmo (@cam-gatta). If you are not in the US, you can use PayPal: sduranmv@icloud.com Please no physical gifts (other than cards....and diamonds!) because we are flying back to Seattle shortly after the wedding reception :)