OAK would be closest, but SFO is not too far either. It's just across the bay.
Depends on what hotel you choose. If you stay in Pleasanton then your hotel may offer a shuttle service to the venue or it could be a quick uber ride away. However, there will be no other wedding activities in the Pleasanton area that weekend so it could get a bit lonely until wedding day. If you choose to stay closer to Oakland/Hayward then you may want to rent a car to drive down to Pleasanton for the wedding on Sunday.
It'll be chilly! But the wedding is indoors so you may just need a light cover up until you're inside.
No problem, just go back to the RSVP tab and change your response. We'll be using that feature to keep close tabs on the guest list leading up to the big day. Please also send us a text to let us know, we'll miss you but we understand that things change.
Please call/text us first!!! Space is very limited and if you declined initially then we may have already reassigned your seat to another guest. No worries though, just text us directly and let us know and we'll do our best to accommodate you!
We love your kids—we really do. But we want our wedding to be your night off! Come hang with us and leave the kiddies at home this time.
We have worked really hard to create the wedding of our dreams with our close family and friends. We will not allow any additional guests other than what is allowed on your RSVP page. Thank you for checking with us first and respecting our wishes.
We'll be capturing photos of you throughout the night so we want to see you looking your red carpet best! We also want you to be comfortable and have a good time so feel free to loosen that tie and kick off those shoes when you're ready.