Q&A's

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COVID?

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Washington state is currently in Phase 3 (as of March 24th, 2021), which allows a maximum capacity of 400 people at wedding venues. However, the venue does currently require all guests to wear appropriate facial coverings for our event.

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Timing?

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We are inviting all of our guests to arrive at 2:30 pm on the wedding day to experience and explore the beautiful Thornewood Castle. All guests are asked to leave the premises no later than 8:45 pm that evening.

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Are you registered? Where?

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YES! We are actually registered through this same website. If you look at the top where all the subjects are, you may see where it says "Registry". We appreciate all the gifts in advance, thank you very much!

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Registry Trouble?

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Don't worry!! This is a common issue! If you're having an issue with the "Place Order" button being grey and not allowing you to fulfill the order, this is an easy fix! The next step is to ensure that ALL the logistical information is completed (billing info, shipping info, card number, etc.) If that is all complete, scroll to the bottom of the page and you will notice a "Continue" button, click on that, and then the "Place Order" button should become clickable and bring you to the next steps. Please contact us personally if there is still an issue. Thank you all for your understanding.

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Will cell phones be allowed during the ceremony?

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We do ask that during this special time, cell phones be put away to therefore focus on the present moment together. Also, the photographer has the means to capture each and every special moment and we would hate to ruin his pictures with our own cell phones. We are sure that your cell phones take beautiful photos, however, it would definitely be preferred not to see them as a part of our professional photos. When the ceremony is over we encourage you to take photos, and if you decide to post any to any social media, please use the hashtag #BecomingTheBentons2021, therefore we can see all the photos everyone has taken and keep the memories forever. Thank you for your understanding.

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What is the weather like in Washington in September?

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You're in luck! During this time of the year, it hasn't quite hit the rainy season yet. The beautiful warm summers will have just come to an end and the beginning of the wonderful Washington Fall weather will be approaching. The average temperature throughout late September can range from 56°F to 66°F. you may want to bring a light sweater or jacket to make sure you stay nice and warm.

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When should I RSVP by?

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We would love each family to RSVP by August 1st, 2021. Thank you!

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Will the wedding be indoor or outdoor?

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We will be praying that this day isn't one with a torrential downpour. Either way, rain or shine, the ceremony will be help outdoors in the garden area. You are welcome to bring an umbrella or rain coat if you are concerned about getting wet. The reception will be held indoors, next to a cozy and warm fireplace.

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What are the colors?

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Merlot, Ivory, and Gold.

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Is there a dress code?

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Semi-Formal.

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Are kids welcome?

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Although we love your little ones, if you do not see your child on the RSVP, grab a babysitter and enjoy the night off!

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#BecomingTheBentons2021

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We would love to see your photos throughout the night! If you have any social media platform, please tag #BecomingTheBentons2021 as it will make it easier for us to see the wonderful memories throughout the day!

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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YES! If you go under the "Travel" tab at the top of the page, you will see that there are a few hotels listed for your convenience.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes! There is plenty of parking on site at the castle. There will be assistance the day of the wedding regarding where to park your vehicle.

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How do I get to Thornewood Castle?

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8601 N Thorne Ln SW, Lakewood, WA 98498