FAQs and Contact Info
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How long have you been dating before getting engaged?
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We've been dating for a long time, since 2012-2013. We actually wanted to marry for a long time, but we wanted to wait until we were actually ready.
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What flavor of cake will be served?
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We are getting a three tiered cake with multiple flavors including a vanilla cake with strawberry filling, a dark velvet chocolate cake, and a small Blue Velvet cake up top that we wish to share on our anniversary, so please be sure to save some!
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What exactly is the expected attire? What is Cocktail Attire?
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Cocktail Attire is a dress code for semi-formal events. It’s not as casual as everyday wear, but not as formal as a black-tie event. For men, it usually means wearing a suit or a nice buttoned shirt and pants. For women, it could be a dress or a stylish top with pants or a skirt. It’s all about looking polished and classy.
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Is there a theme for this wedding? Is it going to be weird and involve dressing up?
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There is a theme but rest assured, no one going to show up in costume and we aren't planning anything outrageous or out of the ordinary for a traditional wedding. We are having a Kingdom Hearts themed wedding, which is a fairytale styled story which has had a lasting and inspiring impact on the Bride and Groom's lives. We ask that while it is a themed wedding, guests should refrain from appearing in full costume, (cosplay) or non-formal attire, even at the reception.
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Can we bring along our children or a plus one?
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We wish we could enjoy the company of every single member of our families and friends on our joyous day. However, unless we have specified in our invites to include your children, a guest (plus one), or other members of your family, please refrain from bringing any extra guests as we have limited spots at the reception.
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I'm sorry that we could not attend but we still wish to contribute somehow!
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We are also sad that you cannot attend, but understand that our paths cannot cross sometimes as much as we may want them to. Should you still wish to show your love and support, you can still send us a simple congratulations email or letter at the address as stated on the Invitation and if you still wish to do more, our registry is open to everyone we invited and you can make a donation of any amount. If everyone invited donated $20 - $30, we would be able to have our dream honeymoon and we would thank each and everyone of you!
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I still want to give you a physical gift; why don't you have a normal registry?
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We will happily accept any gift you would like to give us, but please keep in mind that we already have most of everything a couple might normally be gifted to start out their married life, such as a major appliances, a puppy, furniture, etc. which is why we would request a donation towards our honeymoon or other potential milestones, particularly of the little, loud, cute and "has their father's eyes" variety.
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I need to check into a hotel room sooner than normal check-in times as I can only arrive from out of town the morning of.
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If that is the case, please reach out to us ASAP to the email(s) posted above and we will work to get you reasonably accommodated.