FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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To help us with our planning, please RSVP as soon as possible! However, the deadline is November 1st, 2025. If we do not receive your RSVP by this date, we cannot make exceptions and will have to mark you as "no". We need to provide the venue with a total guest count in a timely manner, we hope you can understand.
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Can I bring a plus one?
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Due to limited space, we can only accommodate for the guests who are formally invited. If you receive a plus one, they will be specifically addressed on your invitation. Thank you for understanding!
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Are children welcome?
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As much as we love our little ones, we encourage you to use this as a date night! Only children in the wedding party will be in attendance
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Is there a dress code?
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We would love to see our family and friends get dressed up with us! We are requesting a formal dress code for the evening. Bridesmaids will be wearing black satin, so please avoid that! Don't worry about the weather, it will all be indoors.
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Is there a room block?
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There is a room block at the Homewood Suites in Dover, the AC Hotel in Portsmouth, and the Hilton Garden in Portsmouth with a shuttle service included!
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Is there parking on site?
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The Red Barn has a parking lot out front. There will also be a shuttle transporting individuals to the venue from the hotel. We encourage you to use the shuttle!
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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The ceremony starts at 4:30pm. Please plan to arrive no later than 15 minutes before the ceremony start time to ensure plenty of time to settle in. You can arrive as early as 4pm.
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Can I take photos during the ceremony?
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We ask that you kindly put your phones away during the ceremony as we want you all to be present with us in the moment. We have a professional photographer and videographer who will be capturing every moment! Other than the ceremony, yes! Please feel free to take as many photos and videos as you want.