Schaffer and I first met at a “gathering” at his home at the time. Funny enough when I got there, another guy was interested in me. Well long story short I couldn’t get this other guy to leave me alone so schaffer and a few of his friends had to distract him while my friend and I left. I was upset that I didn’t have a moment to even talk to Schaffer. I thought all hope was lost!! Well one day early in the morning Schaffer messaged me on Facebook. He asked if I wanted to come hangout. Well like any sane person would say, I told him that I don’t hangout with strangers at one o’clock in the morning. And of course in Schaffer fashion he said “we wouldn’t be strangers if you came to hangout”. I’m set in my ways so I stayed home that night. Once again I was kicking myself because I thought I missed my chance! Well I decided to ask Schaffer if could cook for him.. you know what they say “a way to a man’s heart is his stomach”. Well a homemade Chicken BBQ pizza later we have almost ten years down! Schaffer is my forever and we have a beautiful son that completes our family. I can’t wait to spend eternity with my family.