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Scarly & Jordan

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Question

Is there a dress code?

Answer

Yes - dress to impress! We want everyone to look stunning (you already are). Our wedding is formal or black tie optional, meaning women should wear floor length dresses or gowns and men should wear formal tuxedos or suits. We ask that no shorts, jeans, sneakers, t-shirts be worn out of respect for the church and the celebration of our union.

Question

Can I bring anyone?

Answer

We wish we could invite everyone. Unfortunately, we are limiting the plus-ones for close family members only. Your invitation will state if you are given a plus one.

Question

Can I attend just the reception?

Answer

We love to party, but before we can do that, we must get married first! We don't want to get married without you! We want to see all the beautiful individuals that have helped us become who we are at the church. We would appreciate it if you could make it to both the wedding at the church and the reception. If you cannot make it to either event, please let us know as soon as possible.

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Can I just say yes for now?

Answer

Please do not say yes if you aren't sure that you can attend. Due to contracts with venues and vendors, we would like to know how many people are attending the wedding as soon as possible. Please do not say yes to then say no before!

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What time should I arrive?

Answer

Please arrive 30 minutes prior to the ceremony to find parking and your seat. The ceremony will begin at 2 PM so plan to arrive by 1:30 PM.

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What if I didn't RSVP in time?

Answer

If we do not receive your RSVP the date provided, it will automatically be marked as "Not Attending". We will miss celebrating with you, but we need to finalize numbers a few months before. Thank you for understanding!

Question

Will there be an open bar?

Answer

Yes! The drinks are on us and the hangover is on you!

Question

What type of food will be served at the wedding?

Answer

We'll be serving hors d'oeuvres at cocktail hour followed by a sit down dinner with a choice of entree. You will choose what mean/protein the day of. The options are: chicken, salmon, shrimp, and beef.

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