If there are any questions you have that are not answered on the FAQs, feel free to contact one of the grooms directly.
If you do not RSVP by October 13th, 2026, you will be marked as "not attending". We hope to celebrate with everyone, however, we have to provide an accurate head count to our vendors and cannot accept late RSVPs.
You will be missed! Life happens, no worries. Please let the grooms know as soon as possible that you will no longer be in attendance.
In an effort to keep our wedding as intimate as possible, only the guests formally invited on your wedding invitation will be accommodated. Your invitation will be made out to "[Your Name] & Guest" if you have received a plus one - they will also appear under your name when you RSVP. Thank you for understanding.
For our wedding, we would love for everyone to dress in formal or cocktail attire. It does get chilly at night in November in Temecula, so remember to dress accordingly. Please wear proper footwear, as there will be grassy areas for the ceremony.
While we love your little ones, our wedding will be an adults-only celebration.
We are having an unplugged ceremony. Once the ceremony begins, we kindly ask that all phones and personal cameras are put away and silenced. The greatest gift you can give is being fully present when we say "I do". Our photographers will capture this moment for us and we promise to share our photos as soon as we receive them. Once the ceremony is over, feel free to take as many pictures as you please.
Yes, there will be an open bar after the ceremony for you to enjoy!
Yes! After the reception ends, we plan to head to Old Town Temecula to continue the night with anyone who wants to join!