Yes! Please add a note in your RSVP!
We wish! But probably not this time.
There is a LOT to do around here besides our wedding. Why not make a trip of it? We'll probably be busy the week leading up to the wedding, but it would be great to get together in smaller groups too.
Airbnb near our house and the venue would be a pretty good choice in terms of least dollars for best place to stay. Otherwise, perhaps a hotel near Lake Merrit. Downtown San Francisco can be nice too.
Something describable as between semi-formal and formal. Suits and dresses are just fine -- except for the shoes! This will be outdoors in the grass, so wear shoes that can get a little dirty. Feel free to wear colorful outfits or anything you think looks nice.