FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

Answer

We kindly ask you to RSVP by December 1, 2025.

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Is there a dress code?

Answer

Yes! We are requesting that guests follow a black-tie optional dress code. If you need help decoding the dress code, please visit this link: https://www.vogue.com/article/wedding-dress-codes

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Can I bring a date?

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Please contact Sarah or Randy directly if you are considering bringing a plus-one who is not listed on your invitation.

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Are kids welcome?

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As much as we adore your kiddos, unless they are listed on your invitation, we kindly ask that the ceremony and reception remain adults-only events.

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Are you registered? Where?

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Yes! Please visit the registry page on this website; we are registered with Zola and Amazon.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Please arrive by 3:30 pm as the ceremony starts at 4 pm.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Yes! Please make a note on your online RSVP or contact Sarah or Randy directly ASAP.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Wedding guests will be able to park at the hotel for free on the day of the event.

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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Please check the "Travel" page on this website. There are many hotel options listed there. Carlsbad also offers a wide range of Airbnb options to choose from.

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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?

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No. If transportation is a concern, we recommend staying at the venue hotel (Hilton Garden Inn Carlsbad Beach).