Sarah & Adam
Jewish Wedding 101
Kabbalat Panim & Tisch
טייבל + קוקטייל אוער
Traditionally, a Jewish wedding begins with a Kabbalat Panim (Cocktail Hour), where the bride and groom receive guests. It's an opportunity to eat, schmooze, and visit with guests and the bride and groom! As you eat and drink, grab a bingo board to get to know other guests a bit better. While cocktail hour continues, feel free to stop by our Tisch. A Tisch is an opportunity for the Bride and Groom's friends to sing in Hebrew and English and give toasts as Sarah and Adam attempt to give speeches. At this time Sarah and Adam will sign their Tenaim, a document outlining the commitments they make to each other. Feel free to pop in and out of the Tisch as you enjoy cocktail hour!
Ketubah Signing
סיינינג כתובה
The Ketubah is the contract that forms the legal foundation of Adam and Sarah’s marriage. Adam and Sarah’s Ketubah is decorated with animals from Torah, as well as animals that are personally signficant for them. The Ketubah will be signed by Micah Cowan and Avishai Infeld who were chosen as designated witnesses. Sarah and Adam will also sign their marriage license, witnessed by Selina Li and Aurore Lyon.
Bedeken
טשעקינג
After the documents are signed, Sarah will help Adam put on his Kittel (white robe), which he will wear under the Chuppah. Finally, Adam will cover Sarah’s face with a veil. This custom originates in the story of Jacob and Rachel from the Torah. Prior to veiling the bride, the groom confirms he is not being tricked as Jacob was.
Chuppah
וועדינג סערעמוני
The ceremony under the Chuppah, wedding canopy, is the centerpiece of a Jewish wedding. While standing under the Chuppah, Adam and Sarah will circle one another, Kiddushin (betrothal blessings) will be recited, the Ketubah (marriage contract) will be read aloud, Sheva Berachot (the Seven Wedding Blessings) will be sung by friends and family, and Adam will break a glass.
Dinner & Dancing
דינר & דנסינג
At a Jewish wedding, guests are required to celebrate with the bride and groom! Our tradition considers it an important mitzvah (commandment) to create an atmosphere of joy at a wedding. Whether you’re a pro or a novice, please join us for the Hora, Jewish circle dancing! Hora dancing will be followed by dinner and more dancing. Before the last dance set, Sheva Brachot, the seven wedding blessings, will be recited for a second time.