Formal. Men are requested to wear a tie and jacket while ladies are encouraged to frock up. That said, please don't feel that you need to wear black tie or a ball gown.
We would love to have your entire family join us but we are somewhat limited with numbers, if your invitation mentions your children they are most welcome but otherwise this is a chance for you to kick up your heels.
We have been very blessed in life and therefore request that you don't give us a gift. We would love a card though and a photo with you at our celebration.
Not at all, just let us know in advance what you don't eat.