Maid of Honor
My sister and I have been through a lot together, learning from each other as we have gotten older. Even though we can still fight just as bad as we did when we were kids, (and trust me, they were NOT pretty) I cannot imagine a better person to stand by my side during the biggest milestone of my life, just as I have with hers.
Best Man
Chan and I met our freshman year of college as we were suitemates. We quickly hit it off and would hang out all the time on campus and at his house on the weekends. After college, it was tough to find time to hang out as I moved to Boston, but whenever we did, it always felt like time never passed. That's what I appreciate the most about our friendship. We've always been there for each other through our ups and down, and I couldn't imagine anyone else as my best man.
Bridesmaid
aka Thotty, my diaper buddy. From growing up together and living down the street from each other to being by my side through all my heartbreaks and terrible relationships (and now my best and forever one), we can always have a good time even when it's just the two of us so there was no doubt in my mind that I would want her to stand beside me on my special day.
Groomsman
I've known Fujie since college, but I wouldn't say I was close to him until the past few years when we lived down the street from each other in Chinatown. I can always count on Fujie to come over and have a good time any day of the week. We might be TOO comfortable with one another when we do embarrassing things to each other, even in public. Hopefully you won't see any of that at the wedding lol.
Bridesmaid
There's a running joke that I called Mullyna my best friend's sister once... The truth is that I've never considered Mullyna my best friend and it feels weird to call her my best friend. That's because, to me, she's always been more than that. She's another older sister that I've been blessed with and I value her caring friendship more than she'll ever know.
Groomsman
My first roommate and friend in college :'). Alex and I have been through so many of each others milestones these past 12 years and have been within the same friend groups since we've met. I know I can always count on Alex whenever I need him and couldn't imagine him not by my side for this special day.
Bridesmaid
If you see how Nessa and I interact regularly, you would probably think we hate each other but it's all tough love. Nessa has been such a constant person in my life (aside from the fact that she's actually family) and moving apart from each other has made us grown so much closer. We can share a lot of secrets and talk personally to each other, and there is no judgement because we accept each other for who we are. We even have not one, but TWO matching tattoos together!
Groomsman
My most loyal drinking buddy and hype man. I can always count on Steve to show up early to an event and get hammered before anyone gets there. Though we may joke with each other a lot, we can also have meaningful conversations with one another when it matters the most which is why I value our friendship so much.
Bridesmaid
I met Linda through my sister back when I was in elementary school. She watched me grow through my emo phase (lol) and through all my important moments, Linda has always been there for me. She's become my older sister too, and she's my Virgo twin. With Linda, there's a level of comfort that I get just being myself and I'm lucky to have her in my life.
Groomsman
I swear Austin hated me in college since he was always mean to me. But once I actually started to hang out with him, I realized how funny and kind he is. He is always down to walk with me whenever I take Zuko on a walk, and we can conversate about pretty much anything. He's also another person I can depend on whenever we need some after work drinks.
Bridesmaid
Barbara was my first friend in the Boston/Rhode Island area and I'll never forget that. Over time, Mike and I started to call her our daughter because of the amount of time we spent together and the countless sleepovers we have had with her. From trying new food together to binge watching new kdramas together, I have really appreciated our friendship. Even though we've known each other for a shorter time than the rest, I'm happy to have her stand by my side.
Groomsman
Similar to Fujie, I got closer to Zhen when I moved to Chinatown. We always hung out whenever Sao made food or on the weekends for EDM shows. He's someone I can rely on, except when he brings over a 30 pack of Coors Lights. I'm ecstatic to have him by my side as a groomsman for this special day.
Ring Bearer
The first nephew. I do keep a special place in my heart for him since I helped raise him (even though he's now taller than me).
Flower Child
The second nephew. He has a great big ball of energy that is unrivaled, and he always surprises us with his funny comebacks and meme culture.
Officiant
Brittany and I have one of those bonds where you can go months not speaking to each other or hanging out (because life gets hectic) but once you do, it feels like no time has passed. We've known each other since childhood and have always had love for each other, even though we originally lived in separate states. I can think of no better person who will marry us and be part of our lives forever.