We love your kids—we really do. But we want our wedding to be your night off! The only kids allowed at the wedding are those in our immediate family.
If your invitation says “and Guest,” then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you.
Black-tie-optional! For a black-tie optional wedding, men can wear a tuxedo, but it's not a requirement. If you end up going tuxedo-less, though, they should wear a formal dark suit and tie instead. Women can go the long evening gown route, but a dressy suit or shorter cocktail dress is fine too.