FAQs

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What is a Mehendi Ceremony?

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Mehendi, otherwise known as henna, is a dye paste associated with positive spirits and good luck that is applied on the body via intricate designs. The Mehndi ceremony is another pre-wedding tradition in Indian weddings, and the bride's Mehndi is meant to bring her good health and prosperity as she prepares for marriage. It is also thought to have medicinal properties which help relieve the bride of any stress before her big day. We will have Mehendi artists at this event and guests are encouraged to get Mehndi designs on their palms and/or backs of their hands. The bride, however, will have Mehndi designs up to her elbows. Please allow time for your Mehndi to dry (it will become hard and crunchy once it dries) and know that the longer you keep it on your skin, the darker the designs will become. Eventually, you can scrape off the hard/crunchy paste and will be left with the designs on your skin underneath!

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What clothes should I wear to the Mehndi event?

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Typical Indian semi-formal clothing is encouraged, but if you are more comfortable in American clothing then business casual! Overall, think fun and colorful fabrics, patterns, etc.

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What is a Sangeet?

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A Sangeet is another Indian pre-wedding custom which is a joyous fusion of music and dancing. There are often energetic performances and choreographed dances as well as food and drinks! After the performances wrap up, everyone typically hits the dance floor together! Please note that no guest is required to perform! You are more than welcome to sit back and enjoy the show without participating in any choreographed dances (this is very common). Individuals wishing to perform typically practice with their friends and family in days or weeks leading up to the Sangeet.

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What clothes should I wear to the Sangeet?

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Typical Indian formal clothing is encouraged, but if you are more comfortable in American clothing, then American Formal! Overall, think prom or a ball with glamorous outfits with sparkles, embroidery, sequins, etc.

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What is a Baraat?

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The groom's grand entrance to his wedding is known as the Baraat and it is one of the most exciting parts of an Indian wedding! It is akin to a mini-parade where the groom and his friends/family make their way to the ceremony in full-on celebration mode. The groom often rides on a horse, chariot, etc. while the guests walking beside him are dancing and cheering to the music. Traditionally, the Baraat would be when the groom and his family walk/ride from their village to meet the bride and the bride's family at her village. Today, the Baraat will start just outside of the wedding venue and this lively parade leads to the wedding ceremony entrance.

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What clothes should I wear to the Baraat and Wedding Ceremony?

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Given that all of these events are back-to-back, you will only need one outfit for this day! Typical American formal (or black-tie) clothing is encouraged, but if you are more comfortable in Indian clothing then please feel free to wear that! Overall, think elegant and fancy outfits such as floor-length dresses and suits with ties.

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Are there any colors to avoid for the events?

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While no colors are forbidden, there are a few colors that are avoided when attending an Indian wedding. Avoid wearing red, white, or black traditional Indian wear for the event. However, black suits and American formal wear are completely acceptable. Bright colors, jewel tones, and gold are preferred for celebration. Loud neon colors should generally be avoided as well.

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We're here for the food! What will be served?

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We all love good food! The food will be served buffet style, so our guests will have the option to choose what they’d like to eat. More details later on the final menu! Given this is more of a Hindu religious function, the day of the wedding will have only vegetarian options and alcohol will be available but it will be a cash bar.