In 2023, where modern romance often revolves around digital connections, I met Naia through a wonderful app called “Upward.” Our initial chat led us to Instagram, where our conversations deepened. Despite some interruptions in our communication, each exchange was filled with genuine intention. After our first phone call, it was clear we were aligned in our desires and dreams. Our first date at Tony C’s, where we enjoyed the Kansas City Chiefs game, was unforgettable. I fondly remember how she playfully turned down my first kiss, a moment that only made our connection stronger. Waiting for her was the best decision I ever made, putting the work with communication, faith development and consistency showed me she would be my wife.
One thing was clear: I wanted this proposal to be an unforgettable, romantic moment, and I was determined to make it just that. I started by seeking her father's blessing when he visited my home, marking the beginning of this special journey. Being someone who cherishes nostalgia, I knew our love story had its roots in Boston, Massachusetts. The location had to be perfect, and with some guidance from friends and a touch of intuition, I found the answer. Our day began at Naia's favorite Starbucks, right around 10:45 am, near her old dorm—where we had spent countless hours deepening our connection. From there, I led her to the Commons, near the MLK statue, a place we frequented together. We spent a cherished 15 minutes talking and reminiscing, and then, at precisely 11:11 am on 11/11, I asked the love of my life to marry me. Naia is the dream I never knew I had, and the moment had to be as perfect as our love. When she said yes, my heart soared. We celebrated this new chapter by returning to Tony C, where we had our first date, marking the beginning of our life together, forever.