Matron of Honor
Jessie is my absolute favorite sister. We go wayyy back… like sharing a bed and me sharing her clothes. I always was sneaking her makeup and begging her to do my hair, just wanting to be like her (good things never change). Though we have lived apart for over 12 years now, we have always managed to visit each other, and make it to all of our lives most treasured moments. I couldn’t imagine a life without a better friendship and love for a sister than what I have for her. I hate it every day being so far apart, but am so glad that you will be here for me as you always will.
Maid of Honor
Sam and I met in grad school, and I will never forget asking her to be on my team because we were both trying to avoid the same classmate, “Mr. Bluetooth”. I wish I could have taken a picture of her face, it was all shock and gratitude, 1) how did I know her name? 2) thank god I don’t have to work with Mr. Bluetooth again. It was a Sam’s Club made in heaven. Though we are mostly opposite, we have clearly attracted. Over the past 5 years we have experienced so much life at the same time, and having a partner in crime to share it with has been amazing. Sam is the kindest person I know, and she always affords me that kindness even though it is undeserving. I am so glad to have her as my maid of honor, and cannot wait to have her on my side.
Bridesman
Seriously without Brett, I would not be in Oklahoma (take that however you choose). He was one of the first faces I met moving here, as I showed up to work anxious to be one of his interns (this is how the thing for interns began?). I am so grateful to say that we have been best friends ever since. I cannot even begin to count (seriously its 1,000s+) all the good times from summers at his parents, to nights dancing, crazy trips, to every workout class you could imagine. I can never show enough appreciation for the friendship(s) and family that he has welcomed me into, and the overwhelming love and support through the years. I cannot wait to have you standing on my side on the big day, like you have been for the past 6 years.
Bridesmaid
I never would have thought my “when your mom and I first met” story would be how Kristin and I shared a late night turkey leg, but then again I never thought I’d have such an amazing bond with an amazing woman. We have shared endless wine nights (literally), so many laughs, and true honesty (even when I don’t want to hear it) over the last 5 years. She has been and will always be on my side, and I cannot wait to see her standing there with me here too.
Bridesmaid
On that same faithful turkey leg night 5 years ago, I met another love of my life in Nicole. She is a beautiful person inside and out, and always takes the time to make me feel the same. If she wasn’t Kristin’s wife – I’d steal her for mine (I did sign the documents so…). I love that she is always blunt and a down right badass. Most of all I will always cherish her soft side of our shared intimate moments surrounding your wedding, and cannot wait for us to have them on mine. You are truly amazing, smart, and did I mention drop dead gorgeous? I cannot wait to have you with me.
Bridesmaid
My friendship with Lindsay has been the most delightful and unexpected one I could have imagined over the last 4 years. We have had so many good memories from snuggling in San Diego (and eating night stand pizza), to ladybrine nights, and my favorite memory of fixing the fence. Our time spent together is such a treasure to me, and will continue to be. After New Year’s 3 years ago Linds and I made a pact to spend more time with each other, and we have done just that. I cannot wait for that to continue with all of our new adventures and especially the one where you will be standing up for me.
Bridesmaid
Molls and I are spirit animals. She is an inspiration of beauty, compassion, and an EXTRA time. The day she came into the office two years ago, sealed the deal of a lifelong friendship. She brings joy to all of those around her and especially me. It could be TDY tattoos, late night UNO, or dancing the night away and she is 100%. Our wild and crazy memories, long lunch talks, and girl power makes me so proud she will be here on the big day.
Bridesmaid
I remember a loud voice, infectious laugh, and bright smile the first time I met Corndog 4 years ago at work. If you’d ask her husband, “we are just too damn much alike”, and I wouldn’t have it any other way. It is not often that you get to be best friends with a fun, loving, feisty woman. We’ve done so much traveling, tailgating, and let’s be honest bitching that I couldn’t imagine life without you (even if you can’t ride a bicycle). I am so honored that you will be with me, standing on my side, and years to come.
Best Man
We met in college when I beat him in pool his freshman year. He “moved in” shortly after, clearly I made quite the impression. Not sure when he officially moved in, but he was basically there the whole year. He moved in and out of a few of my houses; I guess that’s just a college thing? I was always disappointed when he moved out, despite the extra couch space. He was my little bro in PIKE, but could have been biological brothers. I'll never forget all the shenanigans, especially working at U-Haul. We ran that place, and we had a lot of fun doing so. The bottom line is this, I could call Grizz and ask him drive to Montana tomorrow and the only thing he would ask is “how long do I need to get off work?” I would trust him with anything and couldn’t ask for a better man to be standing with.
Best Man
One of my best friends since college, I’ve cleaned up after him, towed his broken cars, and provided for him financially for years (kidding–kind of). He packed up on a whim and went on two PIKE trips with me– one required last minute flights. He saved me loneliness and money, and I’ll never forget it (so we are almost even). Even after that, our friendship grew the most when we took the Sulphur Hills Cowboy and Indian B-Flight Championship in extra holes in 2014. Altogether, Hayden has been there for me for many life events and I’ve been through many of his. His mom probably likes me better, though she won’t admit it out loud, and I’ve accepted that. Us getting married has ruined our plan to move to the ranch together, but I guess we can handle them – I mean, it.
Groomsman
We have been best friends since 5th grade. We bonded the first time when he would memorize the answers to our science worksheets from the teacher's desk and give them to me. We grew the closest, probably, when I shot him in the neck point blank with an airsoft gun in middle school. The reenactment of the time I almost shot him in the neck minutes earlier wasn’t as funny when I actually did it. I could go on about the inside jokes we have together, but none of them would be of the slightest enjoyment to anyone but him and me. Dakota and I did nearly everything together until he ditched us and went to an ugly orange school for college, I am not bitter. However, that didn’t break our friendship and I could ask him to do anything, and he would only complain about it as he did it.
Groomsman
We became best friends in 7th grade, but have known each other since the 2nd grade when he came to Oklahoma for a baseball camp and stole the bunting championship out of my fingertips. I don’t hold a grudge, that was probably why Jason is the baseball player that he is. So, you’re welcome, Jason. We've been scheming together since Pre-Algebra and I’m not sure if we’ve stopped. We can drum up a scheme and white lie our way in and out of anything all without planning it. We have always been on the same mind track. We hold secrets from the world that we’re waiting for the “right time” to reveal– all for the heck of it. We went to college and lived together for 2 years and I couldn’t have asked for a better friend. We learned a lot about life together and I’m glad we shared those experiences.
Groomsman
We met when I started at UCO. Trey was my Big Bro in PIKE and I couldn’t have asked for better. We bonded over 8 a.m. classes and tried helping each other make it to them. I must have done a better job, because I had to drop out of mine! We shared “poor college kid” struggles; like when I would drive us to Taco Bell (he didn’t have a car) and he would buy us 2 MealDeals. It sure sounds goofy now, but it worked! We've had many 8hr talks and never run out of topics. I’ve learned some much from him as a person, and I truly appreciate his friendship. Trey is one of the few people I would call to ask for life advice, because we've been together for many highs and lows. I’m proud of what he’s done and where he is going. My life would truly not be the same without you, Trey.
Groomsman
We met in college as well, and lived together with Jason and Greg. We always hit it off and have bonded most through our love of having fun and many late-night study sessions. He has a way of talking people up that makes them sound like rock stars, and I've always wondered what he says about me. I’m sure I couldn’t live up to it. He is a hard worker, but most of all, a great friend. He went to Law School in Arkansas, and we talked and hung out more than some of my friends that lived here. He would call me when he was in town and make time to do something. It’s hard to find friendship like that, and it doesn’t go unnoticed. Rilee is the friend that I can call if I just need a break from life; him and I can relax and have a stress-free night like the best of them.
Groomsman
I’m pretty sure we first got to know each other at a sorority date party, and I guess we just started being friends. Regardless, it's been great. I’ll never let him forget when I had to drive him home from my birthday party and he won’t let me forget every typo I’ve ever made. We lived together after college, and Jerod was the first person to ask me when Sam and I were going to start dating. Mind you, he asked me that before I had even thought about trying to date Sam. I told a story with her in it and he wouldn’t let it go until we started seeing each other. Jerod and Sam have the same type of relationship, only they started giving each other a hard time from the first time they met. Jerod, you’ve been a great friend and I’m glad you were team Sam from the very beginning. Any mistakes?
Groomsman
He attended that ugly orange school before UCO (again, not bitter). We knew each other from PIKE, but we didn’t get to know each other well until we lived together. We graduated high school the same year, but he IS a year older than me- though he's hard pressed to admit it. After college, we started “Beer Friday," where we would meet up after work, have a drink and talk. He met Sam that way and has been a great friend to her ever since. Mikey probably knows the most about my relationship, since he lived with us. It turned out to be some of the best times. We were a little sad we he left, though we didn’t tell him that. We always joke that Mikey is our son, which explains the signature family photo. So, we basically already know what empty nest syndrome is like. Can't wait to be up there!