What to Expect

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What's this Barong Tagalog Dress Code?

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The overall dress code is semi-formal/cocktail attire however if you have a Barong or a Terno dress we'd love to see you rock it at our wedding to make it more festive! These are traditional Filipino garb from the Spanish Colonial days made out of materials such as pineapple husk and other breathable organic materials with intricate embroidery and detailing. Men's shirts are worn starched and ironed, untucked over a white undershirt with black slacks and dress shoes.

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Are there any special precautions necessary for the reception?

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Possibly. The reception venue is outdoors so bring sunglasses for the day and though we anticipate a beautiful evening, a light wrap may be handy if an unexpected breeze rolls through the valley. Lastly, wear comfortable shoes as cocktails and dinner are on the lawn.

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What can we do between the ceremony and reception?

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There is roughly an hour to hour and a half break between mass and the reception. Feel free to check into your hotel, freshen up, change into dancing shoes. For those looking to grab some local refreshments, there are a few local breweries right by the reception venue that we like: Mike Hess Brewing and Cali Craft Brewing. We also recommend taking a stroll around the Ruth Bancroft Garden down the street to see lovely native plants in bloom.

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Can we get social?

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Yes! Use our hashtag #GordonStateOfMind2019 on Instagram and Facebook for wedding related activities and tag Camille and Sam so we can see the memories!

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Will there be any special Filipino Customs during the Ceremony?

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Yes! We will have a few traditions during the ceremony: Candles, Coins, Veil, and Cord. The Candles are lit by two sponsors to represent our families lighting our way forward and joining as one The Coins were typically presented by the groom to his bride as a symbol of his promise to support and care for her, but more commonly now they represent the couple's promise to support and care for their future family The Veil is draped over the Bride and Groom as a symbol of their clothing as one, as well as the shelter of their home and good health The Cord is similar to the veil as it is draped over the Bride and Groom as a symbol of their bond and union as one