FAQs

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What’s the dress code?

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The dress code is a semi-formal harvest festival. Wear whatever makes you feel fabulous and autumnal, but will also let you boogie on the dance floor. The ceremony will be on grass, so be mindful of pointed heels. The bridal party will be in green.

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Are children invited?

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We love your kiddos, but this will be an adults-only event. If you are traveling with little ones and need childcare, please let us know!

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Due to limited venue space, we can only accommodate those named on the wedding invitation. Thank you for understanding.

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Why the full names on the invite?

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We got 'em. Why not?

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What are you doing with your names after marriage?

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Great question - it’s 2025 and we have so many options. We’ve decided that we will take O’Connor as our household married name. Tina will move Safford to a second middle name and continue to use it in the workplace.

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What is this venue?

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Fort Rock Farm is a historic property just outside of downtown Exeter, NH. The land was first settled in the early 1700s, and has been home to many influential Exeter residents, including Ambrose Swazey and an angus beef farm. In the late ‘90s, the property was rented by the local Montessori. Tina and her brother, Geoff, both attended pre-school and kindergarten on the property. Today, is it the private residence of the Toomey family, who generously host a few events a year in the barn and give the majority of the venue cost proceeds to charity.

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What's your mailing address?

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Mike & Tina 19 Lakehill Ave Arlington, MA 02474