FAQs

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Ask away

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If you have any other questions not listed below, feel free to reach out and ask the bride or groom!

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Is the wedding outside?

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The ceremony will take place outdoors in the garden. Since you will be walking on grass, you may want to avoid stilettos. While there will be plenty of shade from the trees, it’s probably going to be a hot summer day. Dress smartly to stay cool and be sure to stay hydrated. Suits are a great option, but the birthday suit is best saved for another time! The building is climate controlled, but the outdoor space will be available to us during the entirety of the reception

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What is the party wearing?

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We’re coming dressed to the nines and ready to celebrate! The flower girl and ringbearer are wearing sage green. The groom is wearing a navy blue suit with brown accessories. The groomsmen will be wearing a 3-piece light grey suit with brown accessories. The bridesmaids will be wearing a floor length steel blue dress. And wouldn't you all like to know what the bride is wearing... just kidding, it's a white dress—it's the one thing we kindly ask you to avoid. If you choose to wear a white dress anyway, just be prepared for some serious glares and possibly an introduction to our most 'accident-prone' guests

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What should I wear?

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We are excited to see our friends and family dress up with us! We are aiming for semi-formal attire. You may dress as colorfully or monochromatic as you would like! Please refrain from wearing a white dress, jeans, t-shirts, flip flops/slides, and shorts for the ceremony. As for the reception, there is no dress code and you are more than welcome to change into what you feel comfortable in. Unless your name is Cody Larsen, you are specifically requested you stay in a tie and actually add layers- cummerbund, bow tie, vest, the more formal layers the better

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Can I bring a guest?

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We'd love to include everyone, but unfortunately we are only able to accommodate those that were formally invited. If you were given a plus one, "Guest" will show on your RSVP page

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Are kids welcome?

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Similarly to plus ones, we are unable to accommodate all children. Children are only invited if specifically named. On your invitation, you’ll see ‘The [Your Last Name] Family,’ and their names will also be listed when you RSVP. For those of you who are bringing children, please ensure they are quiet and well behaved during the ceremony and note that you're responsible for them during the reception as well! Keep in mind that there will be loud music, a lot of people, potential colorful language, alcohol and intoxicated adults. If you'd rather not deal with all that, feel free to make it a date night and leave the little ones at home!

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What time should I arrive?

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The ceremony will begin promptly at 4:30, so please arrive no later than 4:15. We kindly ask that you be seated no later than 4:25. It will be a big wedding (200 plus), so we would suggest arriving at 4 to give yourself time to park and find a seat, but we trust your time management skills! We really appreciate that you plan accordingly to make sure you are in your seats no later than 4:25!

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Is there a hotel block?

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Unfortunately, there were no blocks available at the local hotel. It is a small town and there is only so many places available, but we listed what we found under the travel section on the website.

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Is there parking on site?

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Yes there is free parking on site of our venue. As much as we want everyone to have a great time, we hope everyone is safe in doing so and plans for safe transportation after the reception. You are able to leave your car overnight and get it the next day!

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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We kindly ask that you put away your phones during the ceremony. We’ve hired a photographer to capture these magical moments, and we want you to fully enjoy the experience with us. We do appreciate that you love us both so much and want to capture our day, so if you'd like to take a quick photo, there will be a designated moment when you can, but after that, please kindly put your phones away for the remainder of the ceremony. Thank you so much for your understanding!

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RSVP Questions?

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There are several ways you can let us know you are attending. You can scan the QR code on your RSVP card which will take you directly to the RSVP page of our website or go to the RSVP tab (on a phone, click the horizontal bars in the upper right corner and select RSVP) or there is an RSVP button on the main page under our names. On the website type in your name ie "John Smith". Your name will appear, hit select, and answer the 3 questions! If you do not see your name, check for spelling errors. If that still doesn't work, I would suggest typing in your last name and finding yourself from there! If there are still some issues, please reach out, we might have made a mistake! We prefer you use the website to RSVP, but if you absolutely do not want to RSVP via the site, you may also email or text Jesse or Sabrina with your names and dietary restrictions. We will confirm with you!

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When should I RSVP by?

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To help us with our planning, please RSVP to the event as soon as possible! It really helps the planning process, plus we are just so excited to celebrate with you! However, the deadline is May 25th, 2025. Please don't make us harass you!

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What if I can't make it or don't RSVP in time?

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If you are unable to attend, you will be dearly missed, but we do understand! Please RSVP "will not attend". If you already RSVPed yes and there's been a change of events, please just let Jesse or Sabrina know at your earliest convenience, so we can update our vendors. If you missed the RSVP deadline, we will unfortunately have to mark you as "not attending". This will mean that there will be no seat, food, drinks, or other accommodations available for you.