FAQs

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Are kids allowed?

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We love your little ones! However, we have decided to keep our wedding and reception an adults-only event! We encourage you to use this evening as a date night!

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What is the dress code?

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We'd love to see our friends and family dressed up for our big day! Dress to impress in your best FORMAL attire. Fall colors are encouraged! Formal wear for gentlemen may include a jacket and tie or a traditional suit, a tuxedo is not required. Women think floor-length, tea-length, or midi-length dresses. Please, no jeans/denim & avoid shades of white. Women, we also ask that you please avoid all-black dresses, as our bridal party and immediate family will be in black.

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Can I bring a date/guest?

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Due to limited space, we can only accommodate those guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. If you received a plus one, they will appear under your name when you RSVP. Thank you for understanding!

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When should I RSVP by?

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We ask that you kindly RSVP by September 4th, 2025.

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What do I do if I can't make it?

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You will be dearly missed! If you can not attend the wedding, please let us know as soon as possible and RSVP "Not attending" so we can plan accordingly! Thank you!

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How do I RSVP?

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To RSVP, please click on the RSVP tab and type the name listed on your invitation.

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What if I do not RSVP in time?

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If you do not RSVP by August 4th, you will be marked as "not attending." We would love to celebrate with you. However, we must provide an exact guest count for our venue/vendors and cannot accept late RSVPs. Unfortunately, there are NO exceptions. If you plan on attending, please RSVP ASAP.

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What time should I arrive?

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Please plan to arrive at least 30 minutes before the ceremony start time to give yourself enough time to find parking, sign our guest book, and find your seat. Once the ceremony begins, you will be asked wait to join our celebration until cocktail hour.

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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We are having an unplugged ceremony, meaning that once the ceremony begins, we ask that all phones be put away and silenced. We want everyone to be fully present with us and for our photographer to be able to capture the best pictures, which we will be sure to share with you! Once the ceremony is over, please feel free to take as many pictures as you would like, and don't forget to share them with us!

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Is the venue indoor or outdoor?

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The ceremony and cocktail hour will be outdoors, but the reception will be indoors! California weather in October can be unpredictable, so maybe bring a light jacket or cardigan. The ceremony will be in the grass, so women avoid stilettos!

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Will there be an open bar?

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Yes! We will have a full bar supplying unlimited drinks all night long. The drinks are on us, but the hangover is on you ;)

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Where should I stay?

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Check out the "travel" page on our site for information on suggested hotels that are close to the venue.

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Is there parking on site?

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Yes! A designated parking lot at our venue will be reserved for guests. If you are staying nearby, Uber or Lyft is also a great option so that you may fully enjoy the night worry free!

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Are you registered? Where?

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Please click on our website's "registry" tab to view the items we have registered for. We are registered on Crate and Barrel, Target, and Amazon! There are also a few items specific to our website, Zola, such as different cash funds you can donate to and a few other outside website items.