FAQs

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What should I wear?

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We kindly ask that our guests wear all black attire to help create a beautiful, timeless atmosphere for the day. While this isn’t a black-tie event, we do ask for formal wear, long dresses or gowns for women and suits or tuxedos for men. Please refer to the photo above for inspo!

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When should I RSVP by?

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Kindly RSVP by August 2026. We look forward to celebrating with you!

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Can I bring a plus one?

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To ensure we can accommodate all guests comfortably within the venue's capacity, we ask that only invited guests attend our wedding festivities. You'll find the details about party size, including whether it includes a plus one, on your invitation. We truly appreciate your understanding and can't wait to celebrate with you!

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Is there parking at the hotel?

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Yes! Valet parking is available for a fee. We also recommend looking for nearby parking on SpotHero.

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What time should I arrive to the ceremony?

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Please arrive at St. Alphonsus Church between 12:30 p.m. and 12:45 p.m. to allow ample time for parking and getting seated before the procession begins at 1 p.m.

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Is there parking at the ceremony location?

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Yes! There is parking available at St. Alphonsus Church. A large parking lot is located on Oakdale Avenue and a smaller lot is located on Southport Avenue.

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Is there handicap accessibility at the ceremony?

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Yes! You can enter the church via an elevator. From the Oakdale parking lot, head east toward Southport Avenue and enter the last set of double doors on your left.

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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We kindly ask that phones and cameras are put away during our wedding ceremony.

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What do I do during the break?

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With the ceremony ending around 2 p.m. and cocktail hour starting at 6 p.m., you'll have some free time on Saturday afternoon. Use this time however suits you! Head back to the hotel to rest and freshen up, grab a late lunch, or go somewhere fun to watch some football. You can find some of our recommendations on the Things To Do Page! Just make sure you are back in time to celebrate at 6 p.m.