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September 18, 2025
Brookings, OR

The Elwing’s

FAQs

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What should you wear?

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Dress Code: Coastal Chic We’re aiming for that sweet spot between dressy and casual — think “khakis and a nice shirt” or a flowy dress with sandals. It’s a special day, but we’re keeping things relaxed and comfortable. We’ll be outdoors on the Oregon coast, so bring a layer in case it gets chilly!

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What does the night look like?

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After we say “I do,” please stick around — we’ll be taking some couple photos, and our photographer Morgan may want to snap a few family shots right after the ceremony. While we’re off getting dreamy photos, you’re welcome to head over to our Airbnb on the Chetco River to start the celebration! We’ll have cocktails, drinks, and light eats (think charcuterie and easy bites) to enjoy while you settle in. Once we return, we’ll gather for a relaxed dinner, music, and a cozy fire pit. No big production — just good food, great company, and a night to celebrate love, laughter, and this new adventure we’re starting together. We’re so excited to share this intimate, meaningful evening with the people we love most. ❤️

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The day before the wedding?

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We know everyone will be arriving at different times, but if you’re in town early and looking to soak up some coastal beauty, we’d love to see you! Ahna is planning a relaxed outing the day before — likely some winery hopping just across the border in California. It’s not a formal event, just a chance for the ladies of the family to enjoy a little wine, conversation, and time together before the big day. If you’re interested in joining, let us know — we’d love to include you!

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What’s going on the week of?

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We know everyone’s got their own plans and travel timelines, but if you’re in town during the week and want to join us for some casual exploring — think Redwoods walks, Natural Bridges, beach hangs, or lunch somewhere cute — we’d love to have you along! And if you’ve got something fun on your itinerary, invite us too! We’re hoping to soak up as much time as we can with our favorite people before the big day. Just shoot us a text if you’re around — we’re keeping things relaxed and would love to make some sweet pre-wedding memories with you.

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Can we take photos of the day?

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We’ve hired an amazing photographer (shoutout to Morgan!) to beautifully capture our day, so you can be fully present and soak in the moment with us — no need to play paparazzi during the ceremony! At the reception, we’ll have some fun cameras out for everyone to use — snap away, make memories, and don’t forget to share them with us later! Thanks for helping us keep the ceremony unplugged and intentional. We can’t wait to relive it all through your eyes and our pro’s lens.

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Are kids welcome?

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While we absolutely love your little ones and cherish all the kiddos in our lives, we’ve decided to keep our celebration adults-only due to limited space and the intimate nature of the day. We hope this can be a little getaway for you — a chance to relax, enjoy the coast, and celebrate with us without the usual responsibilities. Thank you for understanding and making time for this special moment in our lives!