Our Love Story

Our love story has had its ups and downs, much like the plot of a Romantic Comedy TV series. We were just teenagers, curious and excited about life. Ruth had just started attending the Philadelphia SDA Church, and that’s where we first began to get to know each other. To be honest, I was the first one to admit to her that I liked her more than a friend. She was different from anyone I had known and gave me fresh perspectives on life that I’d never considered. She was elegant, well-spoken, and beautiful—qualities I’d always wanted in a wife. But I wasn’t quite at that level yet, and I didn’t think she saw me in the same way. Then I left for university, and that’s when our relationship started to bloom. We began our long-distance relationship as college sweethearts, and those were some of the best days of my life. We were young, naïve, and blissfully unaware of the challenges life would soon throw at us. However, long-distance was tough. The challenges eventually led to us breaking up. Months later, my father suffered a stroke, and my world seemed to fall apart. I missed Ruth deeply, but I had to focus on my family and the difficulties at hand. During that time, I held onto the thought: "If it’s meant to be, it will find its way back." Those six years were some of the hardest of my life. My father's stroke and his eventual passing were devastating for our entire family. But through therapy, prayer, and healing, I started to find peace again. And then, just when I needed it most, Ruth reached out. She wanted to rebuild our friendship. I truly believe God brought us back together. Today, our relationship is stronger than ever, built on a deeper connection with each other and with God. As we prepare for marriage, I can’t imagine spending my life with anyone else. Ruth is my true love, and the thought of building a life together filled with love, faith, and joy excites me beyond words. I know God brought us together for a reason, and I am certain that our children will be blessed because of it.

Our story began in 2011 at the house of God in Miami, Florida. The first time I saw Saddov Neus, I thought he looked mean and unapproachable, but that couldn’t have been further from the truth. What I didn’t know then was that behind his serious expression were layers of kindness, wisdom, and a heart deeply rooted in faith. Our first conversation was unexpected and lighthearted. I never imagined in a million years that this handsome, compassionate, loving, and gentle man would one day become my husband. As we spent more time together, we formed a bond that felt natural and unbreakable. People around us often assumed we were already a couple. But it was the foundation of our friendship built on laughter, prayer, and meaningful conversations that drew us closer. During a Haitian church camp, Saddov asked me to be his girlfriend. Though I wasn’t ready at the time, we continued nurturing something special. College eventually puts distance between us, and life leads us down different paths. Yet during that time apart, I came to understand just how much he meant to me. When he came home for a break, I saw a different side of him he had grown into the man God was shaping him to be. We shared our hearts and officially started a relationship in 2015, even though it was long-distance. That season was challenging, and we eventually parted ways to focus on our individual growth. In August 2021, after the heartbreaking loss of Saddov’s father, God brought us back together. Our friendship was rekindled during that difficult time, and it reminded us of the love and deep connection we had never truly lost. As we reconnected, Saddov made his intentions clear he was ready for something deeper and lasting. I prayed and asked God for guidance. Through gentle signs and quiet confirmations, the Lord gave me peace about moving forward. On December 26, 2022, we entered a new chapter as a couple. Over the following year, we celebrated our anniversary, continued growing in love and faith, and deepened our commitment to each other. Then, on March 23, 2024, Saddov asked me a question that would change our lives he asked me to be his wife. Without hesitation, I said yes. On November 16, 2025, we will stand before God, our families, and friends to say, “I do” and begin our forever together. This journey hasn’t always been easy, but God has been faithful every step of the way. His favor, grace, and perfect timing brought us back to each other. We are so excited to celebrate this love story with all who have supported and prayed for us throughout the years.