FAQs
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Are kids invited?
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We've chosen to make our wedding an adults-only celebration. Aside from children named directly on the invitation, we kindly ask that you join us without children of any age. Thank you so much for understanding!
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Can I bring a guest or plus-one?
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We've reserved seats for the guests named on your invitation. If your invite includes a plus-one or "and guest," you're welcome to bring someone!
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Will the ceremony and reception be in the same place?
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No — the ceremony is at St. Clement Catholic Church in Lincoln Park, and the reception follows at The Midland Hotel. There will be about an hour in between the end of the ceremony and the start of the Cocktail Hour back at the hotel. This will allow for time to travel between venues since it is about a 20 min drive/uber between the two. Guests are welcome visit the hotel bar or nearby restaurants to kill time in between.
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Is there parking at the ceremony?
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Yes! St. Clement has parking available on-site, so feel free to drive directly to the ceremony.
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What time should I arrive?
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Please plan to arrive about 30 minutes before the ceremony start time so you can be seated comfortably. The ceremony begins promptly at 3 PM and will be a full Catholic Mass.
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What is the attire?
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Black-Tie Optional attire. Tuxedos, gowns, and barong tagalogs (traditional Filipino formalwear) preferred; dark suits also welcomed. Floor-length or formal attire kindly requested; no denim.
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What is a Barong Tagalog?
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For those who may not be familiar: the barong tagalog is the traditional formal shirt of the Philippines, delicately woven and finished with hand-worked embroidery — a craft passed down for generations. It stands shoulder to shoulder with the tuxedo as true formalwear, so it's warmly welcomed in place of tuxs/suits for our celebration.We ask if worn for it. to be paired with black or dark pants. For us, it's also a beautiful way to honor Filipino heritage, and we'd love to see it worn as an option for our guests, but not mandatory. These shirts can be found anywhere from Amazon to specialty websites.
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Will the events be indoors?
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Yes, of course! It's Winter in Chicago! Both the ceremony and reception are fully indoors and heated — but expect cold temperatures outside, so dress warmly for arrivals and departures. Feel free to break out the furs!