FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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Kindly RSVP by December 1st 2025 the latest
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Is there a dress code?
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Think semi-formal garden party vibes! Feel free to wear any color you like—just no white, please. Note: The ceremony is in a church, so please make sure your outfit is respectful of the setting.
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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?
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Absolutely! Please include any dietary restrictions when you RSVP by November 1, 2025, and we’ll do our best to accommodate you.
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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The ceremony will begin promptly at 3pm. Please arrive by 2:30pm to be seated.
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Can I bring a date?
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Due to limited space, we can only accommodate those formally invited. If you received a plus-one, it will appear in the RSVP portal. Thank you for understanding!
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Are kids welcome?
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Children who are invited will be listed when you RSVP Please note: The reception is near the water, so we kindly ask that children are supervised at all times. During the ceremony, the church has a cry room available if little ones need a break.
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Is there a hotel block?
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We currently have a hotel block at The Dana on Mission Bay that offers a 10% discount via the link: https://res.windsurfercrs.com/ibe/details.aspx?propertyid=17116&nights=2&checkin=01/15/2026&group=2601IRUYU&lang=en-us&adults=2 But, feel free to stay at any of the many hotels and airbnbs nearby!
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Where can I park?
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Ceremony: Limited free parking is available behind the church. Please let us know in your RSVP if you plan to park there. Reception: Free parking is available onsite at the venue.
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Can I take pictures?
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During the ceremony please refrain from phone usage. After the ceremony feel free to take and post as many photos as you want!
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What if I am unable to attend?
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We’ll miss you, but we completely understand! Just RSVP as “Unable to Attend.” We're so grateful you're part of our lives, whether near or far.
