We hope that for our big "do" you will pick out something nice that you feel amazing in... dare we say "fancy". For semi-formal feel free to leave the tux in the closet and find something with a bit of personality and polish. More info about semi-formal here: https://www.brides.com/semi-formal-wedding-attire-4800687
Great question, the day following our wedding (November 11th) is Veteran's Day! So, hopefully most people should have off work, or are able to take that day off.