i was married to his adopted cousin and we met back then which was 2001 or 2002 and i had fallen for him and he for me and we kept on down low due to the family and everything we let it go well i wrote him in 2008 or 2010 and told him i was in love with him and at that time he said he wasn't with me cause he was not in a good place so we finally hooked up in May 20th 2018 and wouldn't trade for the world he asked me to marry him 2 weeks into our relationship and i said yes no ring then he asked me July 4th 2018 in person still no ring he got me a ring in December 2018 right near my birthday and christmas and got on one knee and asked history from there it has been love at first sight every time he has 5 kids i have 5 kids now some of the family is happy my Ex his cousin is even happy for us thank god and his cousin who is like a brother Leland so it is good we have decided to get married October 26 2019 due to Rylee's birthday the day after and we love camo and hunting and outdoors so yea that was our choice from the get go do what we love and where we love which is outdoors and redneck theme kinda of camo and buck and doe