FAQs

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What should I wear?

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The dress code for your wedding is semi-formal/cocktail attire. Ladies should wear cocktail dresses and the gentlemen should wear a suit and tie or a sports coat. **Tip: Ladies should opt for a chunky heel as there are some areas of the venue outdoors that are on grass.

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Where will it all take place?

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The wedding and reception will both take place at the same venue. The address is listed under the "Schedule" tab.

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Will the event be indoors or outdoors?

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The Venue is an old renovated home and most of the night will be hosted outdoors in the backyard.

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What happens after the ceremony?

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After the ceremony, the bridal party will be taking pictured nearby for about an hour. The guests can head back to the house deck where we will be serving finger foods and beverages.

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What should I do if I can't make it?

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You will be missed! If you can't make it, please let us know as soon as possible and RSVP "no" so we can plan accordingly.

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What time should I arrive?

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The ceremony will start promptly at 3p.m. but we don't want to start without you there! So please be about 20 minutes early so you have time to sign our guestbook as well as find your seat and get settled in.

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Where should the guests park & is parking free?

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Parking is free! Just drive up to the property and you will be told where to park.

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Are kids welcome?

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While we love your little ones, our wedding is going to be an adults-only event so everyone can relax and enjoy the evening. We appreciate you making arrangements ahead of time and leaving the kids at home so you can celebrate with us.

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Can I bring a date?

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We have a strict guest list to stay on budget. Our wedding is strictly RSVP only. We will only accommodate those listed on your invitation.

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When is the RSVP deadline? Do I need to mail back an RSVP or can I do it online?

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The deadline to RSVP is Feb. 20, 2021 and all you have to do is click the RSVP tab right here on the website to reserve your spot.

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Will food and drinks be served at the reception?

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Yes! we are excited to sit down and have dinner with all of you.

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Where are you registered?

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We are registered right here on this website. You can see our registry right under the "registry" tab. We have selected some things we would love to have as newlyweds but they're not all material. Most registries are "funds" for our honeymoon adventure so you can partner with us to make a dream trip come true!

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Will transporation be provided to/from hotel?

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We will not have transportation for anyone staying in a hotel but the hotels are nearby and the property will have plenty of parking for all of our guests.

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Can I take and post pictures of the wedding on social media?

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Yes! we would love nothing more than to see everything you capture during the reception and please use the hashtag #ScatesDownTheAisle so we can find them all. We ask that you please don't have your phones out at all during the ceremony so we can all enjoy and be in the moment together. We promise to share pictures of that with you after the wedding.