FAQs

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate the guests listed on your invitation and on the RSVP page.

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Are children welcome?

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As much as we love your little ones, we have decided to keep our wedding an adults-only event with the exception of our flower girl of honor. That being said, we kindly ask that you only bring those formally invited on your invitation. We hope you understand & enjoy the night off as we can't wait to celebrate with you!

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When & where should I RSVP?

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Please RSVP through our wedding website by the date listed on your invitation. We kindly ask guests to respond by their deadline so we can finalize seating, catering and event details.

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What is the RSVP deadline?

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Your RSVP deadline is mentioned on your invitation. We are working with venue and vendor timelines, so we appreciate responses by that date. We truly appreciate timely responses, as this helps us finalize plans and celebrate smoothly with everyone.

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What if I miss the RSVP deadline?

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If we do not receive your RSVP by the date listed on your invitation, it will be marked as a "no." We'll truly miss celebrating with you! Because we must provide our venue with a final guest count on time, we're unfortunately unable to accept late RSVPs. Thank you so much for your understanding.

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Does the venue have parking?

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Yes! There is plenty of parking at the Cathedral's parking structure for the ceremony. Complimentary valet parking will be provided at the reception.

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What time should I arrive?

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Please arrive at the Cathedral by 2:45pm, as the ceremony will begin promptly at 3:00pm. Doors will be locked at that time.

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What is the dress code?

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Formal, Black Tie Optional. Tuxedos and floor-length gowns are welcome, as are suits and refined cocktail attire. Please visit our Dress Code page for full details and color inspiration.

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Can dietary restrictions be accommodated?

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Please note any dietary needs or allergies when you RSVP.

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What is the Filipino Money Dance?

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The Filipino money dance is a fun and meaningful tradition where guests are invited to dance with the bride and groom while pinning or placing a small monetary offering on them. It’s a way of celebrating, offering well wishes, and helping the couple start their new life together. If you’d like to participate, simply line up when invited—someone will be there to guide you!

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Will there be an open bar?

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Absolutely! It's a celebration, clap clap bravo!

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Do you have a registry?

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We're fortunate to already have a home filled with what we need, so we won't be creating a traditional registry. Your presence at our wedding is truly the greatest gift. If you feel inclined to give, a monetary gift would be sincerely appreciated as we continue planning for our future family. Should you prefer to give digitally, you’ll find that option available here under Registry.

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Do you have a hotel block for guests? Where do you recommend I stay?

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We don’t have a formal room block, but we’ve shared a few recommended places to stay on our “Stay Nearby” page. Our ceremony is in Downtown LA and the reception is about six miles away in Highland Park. We’ll be staying at The Delphi DTLA—we’d love to have you nearby, but please stay wherever is most convenient for you! If you have any questions or would like additional suggestions, feel free to reach out—we’re happy to help!