Bride
I am the happiest person on earth. Allen has chosen me to be his bride. My heart is filled with gratitude. I want to first thank God for sending such a wonderful man in my path. Allen, Thank You, for being all that you are in my life, encouraging me, making me smile when I feel defeated, comforting me when I am sad. Thank you for being my voice of reason. Thank you for being constant. Thank you for always being by my side. I love you! For I have found the one that makes my heart sing!
Groom
I feel like I am the luckiest man alive. I never thought in a million years that Robin would be interested in a simple man like me. I had spoken about her to my son and expressed an interest. I did extensive work finding out all of the details of this intriguing woman. Most everyone I asked about her, had nothing but great things to say. I finally got up the nerve to ask her out on a date. Surprisingly, she said sure. I must have taken too long to ask her out. A few days had passed. She stopped by my house and said, I thought you were gonna take me on a date. I finally called her a few days later. It has been a joyous journey every since. I have taken the time to really get to know her for myself. I have found that all of the wonderful things said about her are true. I have learned so much more. I have unlocked her true gift, that is unconditional love. Robin has taken sadness away and filled my heart with pure joy!
Matron of Honor
Del is my dearest 2nd cousin. She and I were pen pals growing up. I chose her to be my matron of honor, because she is a God-fearing woman. Her grandmother is my favorite great aunt. She offers solid Biblical advice when asked. She is humble, kind and just the sweetest person to be around. We can talk and share just about anything. We pray together as well as for one another. We share like minds. I love her gentle spirit. I love her. I am elated that she accepted the honor and duty to be my matron of honor.
Maid of Honor
Sharon is one of my closest friends. When I asked Sharon to be my maid of honor. She accepted with smiles and great cheer. Our friendship has stood the test of time. It has been 37 years. We have raised our children , vacationed, cooked, cared for each other during brief illnesses. We have cried and prayed together. We celebrate everything! Most of all we support one another. Sharon is a Believer! We share like morals, principals and values. Sharon is one fierce praying woman of God. I believe she can pray down the walls of Jericho! I love you Sharon with all my heart. Thanks for loving us and supporting our love!
Maid of Honor
Lesley is my only sister. She is detail oriented. The fixer! She is kind, compassionate, caring. She loves and is very dedicated to her husband and our family. My children are her children. My grandchildren are her grandchildren. She possesses many gifts and talents. We don’t always see eye to but our love for one another always centers us. She has an unwavering faith in God. She has a resilience that is unbelievable at times. Her most recent life challenges has shaken her to the very core. She still believes God for everything! When I asked her if she would be my second Maid of honor, she gladly accepted. I love my sister dearly!
Bridesmaid
Belinda is my sister in love to be. She has always said if Allen and I get married. She’d better be in the wedding. Belinda has been consistent in her care and concern for Allen and I. She offers sound relationship advice. She loves her brother dearly. She shares her happiness, that Allen has found someone to share life with. We were elated to receive her blessing for our marriage. She is loving, kind, and is a beautiful well-rounded person. I love you Belinda!
Bridesmaid
Rhonda has been a great friend. She has supported our families in many ways. When I asked Rhonda to be my bridesmaid. She smiled, and accepted gladly. She said, I would be so happy to stand with you and my classmate Allen. She has been a faithful friend to my mom during her illness. She truly sticks by us. She visits, she prays, and shows us how much she cares. She has known both Allen and I for many years. I just love her sweet spirit!
Bridesmaid
Annisa is my one and only daughter. We have had some memorable times together. I love our relationship. We talk nearly every day. We share the same birth month. When I asked her to be my bridesmaid, she said you know I will momma. I love Mr. Allen. He has been so good to and for you. Annisa has welcomed motherhood with a fevor you could not even imagine. She has a heart of gold. She is smart, caring, and kind. I am so happy that she is mine and I am hers. I love you beyond the moon Annisa!
Flower Girl
Mary or as we affectionately call her “Mickey”has been a friend a mother figure, confidant, advisor, and everything in between to me for 30 plus years. She is the mother to 3 beautiful daughters who I call my sisters. All of us girls have been through many challenges in life. Mickey has been there right by our side to face them all. She is a mother to many. She adores her family. She loves the Lord. She loves her Oak Grove church family. She is always willing to help. When I asked her if she would step in to be my flower girl, the first thing she said was, Robin, what in the world am I going to wear? I said something pretty Mickey. Pick your own clothes and shoes. Just pretty is all I want! She has graciously accepted. I would do anything for her. She has known Allen and his family for many many years. They were neighbors as well as friends. We are both happy that you share in our happiness. We love you Mary Worrell!
Best Man
Demond is my second born son. He has given me great joy. He gladly accepted the role of being my second best man. Who better to stand beside me than my sons. Demond is very strong willed and determined. I have watched him accomplish all that he has set his mind to do. I was very proud to see him obtain his Bachelors degree in business. After finishing his career in the Air Force, he was determined to obtain his degree. I will always love my sons! Love always conquers all. It was difficult introducing Robin to Demond at first. Robin has been remarkable in bridging the gap between my son and I and works to foster a healthy relationship. She has gained his respect by just being herself. I have enjoyed watching their bond grow. It has been a joy seeing how in time, prayer truly does change things. I am overjoyed to have both of my sons stand with me as I embark upon this new journey!
Groomsman
Ishma has been a faithful and consistent cousin throughout the years. He has supported Allen through sickness, and aided in many ways. He gladly accepted the duty of being a groomsman to Allen. He is kind, yet stern. He is systematic and a real no nonsense kind of guy. He will always give it to you straight. He is a cousin that Allen can always count on in times of need. He supports our happiness. He has been there for all the days leading to this beautiful day! We love you Ishma!
Groomsman
Ed is a lifelong friend. I remember asking Ed many questions about new found love and relationships. He said go for it! We are not getting any younger. Why be alone when you have found someone to share life with. Ed has recently married his grade school sweetheart. He and his lovely wife Darnell share a beautiful love. Ed gladly accepted the honor to stand with me as I began a new chapter in my life. He has a huge heart! He has never let me down. I can safely say, I can ask just about anything of him, and he is there. Consider it done! He has shown Robin and I the sincerest support and encouragement since the beginning. Ed is one of my closest and dearest friends. We love you Ed (Figg)!
Groomsman
Jessie has been a great friend, confidant, spiritual advisor, and financial advisor. I am eternally grateful for the support he has shown Robin and I. Among the many commonalities we share, we love good food. I will go as far to say that we are food connoisseurs. When I asked Jessie if he would be a groomsman, he accepted with joy. We enjoyed the time together getting fitted, and finding a new place to get custom suits. Of course he already had a place in mind for lunch. It was a good day of food, and laughter. I respect and admire the faithful god fearing man that you are Jessie. We thank you for your support and care for us!
Groomsman
Curtis is my son in law. He has been in the family for many years. He was a dedicated husband, father to his children and a wonderful friend. Curtis has suffered great losses in a short period of time. He is family! With the recent passing of my dear brother Elmer. We decided to ask Curtis to step in. He was more than happy to do so. He has been very supportive to Robin and I. He was very close to Elmer also. We are truly grateful for Curtis’ love and support. We love you Curtis!
Bell Ringer
Chance is my first grandchild. He is the apple of my eye. He is smart, kind, and loving. He loves the Lord. He prays for his family every night. He is athletic. He loves people and shows a genuine concern for others. He and Allen have a special bond. He affectionately calls me granny! My love for him is endless. Chance gladly accepted the position as the bell ringer. Allen and I are excited for Chance to stand with us!
Father of the Bride
To my wonderful father. You have shown me what a real man looks like. You are gentle, patient, kind, and caring. I have longed my whole life seeking a love like yours and mom’s. You are so dedicated to mom. I see the care and concern you have for her daily. Even when you were very sick, you worried more about mom than yourself. I love how you love us all. Thank you for your prayers for your family daddy. Thank you for your support and blessings for Allen and I. I have found the one whom makes my heart sing!
Mother of the Bride
My dearest sweet mother. You have been here for me since my birth. You have cared for me, provided for me, protected me, guided me, led me to Christ. Most importantly, you taught me how to be a wife, a mother, to nurture and care for my family. I truly miss that I am not able to share all of the joy and happiness that I share with Allen with you. I miss our talks and laughter, singing and cooking. The horrible disease of Alzheimer’s has taken away your memory. Your love is still and will remain with us always. I love you mom! I give my all to you!
Usher
Kelsey and Tyrone have been friends a long time. He is a great all around guy. He loves the Lord. He also happens to be the brother of my beautiful daughter in law Annette. Kelsey is a fine young man. At family get togethers, he’s always the life of the party. This guy is also very fashionable. He’s as sharp as a tack when he steps out. We are happy to have his support. Thanks man for accepting the role. I chose the best of the best!
Usher
Bro. has been a long time friend. We worked together for many years. We have had many meaningful conversations. Each time we see each other out in the community, it’s like a reunion all over again. He is one stylish dresser. Whether it’s casual or dress. It’s always classy. I asked him to be an usher and he gladly accepted. My friend, my man. Friends always
Usher
Victor and I worked together also. We are both retired from Newport News shipyard. We also served together on the Trustee board at a former church. He is a no nonsense guy. He like his brother is also a very polished debonair gentleman. Victor is a real good guy! When I asked him if he would be an usher at our wedding he gladly said yes. He also said if you need anything, just let me know! Thank you for your support it means everything to us!
Usher
I have known Robert since he was very young. I call him “Ice”. He has been a long time friend of Tyrone. He is like a son to me. I have always been around the guys my sons hung out with. It kept me in the “know”. He stops by to visit and check on me any time. He calls me “Pop”. I am proud to see the man he has become. He proudly supports Robin and I. Thanks for being there for us!
Officiant
Dr. Steven G. Blunt is our pastor. He is a “native son” of Baton Rouge, Louisiana and the son of the late Rev. Dr. Henry Blunt and Mrs. Clarissa P. Blunt of Franklin, Virginia. He is a 1996 Cum Laude Honor Graduate of Virginia Union University in Richmond, Virginia (B.A. Degree in Religion & Philosophy), a 1999 Cum Laude Honor Graduate of the Samuel DeWitt Proctor School of Theology of Virginia Union University (Master of Divinity Degree), a 2002 Honor Graduate of the Union Presbyterian School of Christian Education of Richmond, Virginia (Master of Theology Degree with a concentration in the field of Ethics and Historical Philosophy), and is also a 2009 graduate of Howard University’s School of Divinity in Washington, D.C. where he attained the Degree of Doctor of Ministry. Having been in the pastorate for over 26 years, Dr. Blunt proudly served as pastor of the Mt. Ararat Missionary Baptist Church of Windsor, N.C. for six years before humbly accepting the call in 2002 to fulfill the pastorate of the historic First Baptist Church Mahan Street of Suffolk, Virginia. In addition to faithfully serving the pastorate of First Baptist Church Mahan, Dr. Blunt has been intimately engaged within community service initiatives.
Groomsman
Marvin, or as I affectionately call him, (Bop) is my brother. Bop and I grew up together. We endured many situations and circumstances together. We learned some hard lessons. Through it all, we always had each others back. He has been very supportive of Robin's and my relationship. We know that he is just a phone call away. Bop showed proof during the recent loss of my brother Elmer, that he takes his calling as a deacon seriously. He was right by our side every step of the way. He has a wonderful helpmate and wife Doris who has been equally as supportive. I could go on and on. I am happy that you were able to step in as a groomsman in short notice. You fulfilled this role with duty and grace. We are eternally grateful. We love you brother!