Dale is a friend of ours, and he offered his wonderful business up as a location for our wedding! It has a gorgeous view of the Buffalo river and the naval ships, as well as the Buffalo skyline.
wear something nice! it's not a formal, black tie event, but cocktail dresses are perfect for the ladies, and dress-shirts or suits are perfect for the guys (it'll probably be warm, so if you're more comfortable in a short-sleeve dress shirt, that's perfectly fine)
it's up to you, but I personally wouldn't recommend spikey high heels. we're going to be on grass and gravel, so flats or wedge heels will probably be more comfortable.
we have a big, beautiful event tent, so the event will be going on rain or shine. best case scenario, the ceremony will be outdoors, but we can move it into the tent if needed.
the marina has tons of parking for cars, so no worries.
of course - we're having a full pig-roast for dinner before the ceremony (buffet-style)