We kindly ask guests to dress in cocktail or formal attire. As the ceremony will be held outdoors, please choose something comfortable and suitable for the weather. A friendly reminder: please avoid wearing white. And for the ladies—we kindly ask that you refrain from wearing any and all shades of green. Thank you for understanding! While also honoring the formality of the event a special note to the gentlemen in my family: slacks are kindly requested—this is a once-in-a-lifetime occasion (if you can avoid the jeans, beautiful)! -Janae
While we absolutely love the youngsters, due to venue capacity and guidelines we kindly ask that your children stay home for this celebration. We hope you can join us for a relaxing and elegant evening and enjoy a well-deserved night out!
Yes! Under the “Registry” tab, you’ll find a fund set up for our honeymoon. If you prefer, there will also be a spot for physical cash gifts at the wedding as well. We need money for Japan, we wanna be fatties out there lol!
We kindly ask all guests to arrive on time so we can begin the celebration as planned. We suggest guests come when the garden doors open at 2:30 PM. During this time, guests will be welcomed by the groom and the father of the bride and can enjoy light refreshments. The processional will begin at 2:50 PM, and the ceremony will start promptly at 3:00 PM. A reminder from the Bride: To my wonderful family—on this special day, we are not operating on Mexican time! Please be sure to arrive on time. Guests who arrive at 3:00 PM will be kindly asked to wait until the ceremony concludes before entering. PLEASE do not be late—we want you there for every moment!
We'd love to invite everyone, but due to venue capacity, only guests who received a plus one on their invitation can bring a guest. Thank you for understanding!
We’re so excited to celebrate with you! Please RSVP by 8/31/2025 to let us know if you’ll be attending. If we don’t hear from you by then, we will assume you’re unable to attend, and unfortunately, we won’t be able to accommodate you on the day of the wedding. There are final counts we must communicate to the venue, caterer and bartender etc.— Please take a moment to check your calendar and confirm. We truly appreciate your understanding!
We’ll miss you! If you’re unable to attend, please let us know as soon as possible by submitting your RSVP and selecting “regretfully cannot attend.” This helps us finalize the venue seating, catering, and other details. Sometimes life happens, and if you have already RSVP'd "Attending," but find that you are not able to make it, Please notify Janae as soon as you are aware. (805)701-6201. Thank you for letting us know!
There will be an open bar for all guests to enjoy! We kindly ask that you be courteous to the bartenders and consider bringing cash for tips to show your appreciation for their service. We’ll also be having a money dance, so feel free to bring a little sum sum extra if you’d like to join in on the fun and help us start our next chapter!