Thank you so much for the beautiful oak serving board! We can’t wait to use it during the many dinner parties you’ll be invited to this winter. Looking forward to celebrating with you at our wedding!

For a kitchen gift you received before your wedding

How did you know we were dreaming of those crystal champagne flutes?! They’re by far the most beautiful glasses in our home and we’ve never felt fancier. You’ll have to come over soon so we can toast to you! So excited to see you in June.

For drinkware you received before your wedding

We had a blast dancing the night away with you at our wedding. We also can’t thank you enough for the espresso maker. Our mornings have never been brighter! We can’t wait to see you in Austin next month… all caffeinated up!

For a coffee gift you received after your wedding

Where have you been hiding those killer dance moves? Thank you so much for rocking out at our wedding. And we absolutely love our new cast iron skillet and cookbook! We’re already cooking up a storm. Hope to see you soon in New York!

For cookware you received after your wedding

Thank you so much for the beer-brewing kit! We hope to be sipping backyard IPAs with you in no time. We missed you at the wedding, but know you were there in spirit. Can’t wait to see you when we’re back from our honeymoon!

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Rob and Ayla met online, bonding over their love of Dungeons and Dragons, the McElroy brothers, and all things nerdy. Their first date was on the Woodstock Square, at Ethereal Confections, where they walked around the farmers' market. In 2023, Rob proposed to Ayla in the Woostock Square under the gazebo, in sight of all the places that hold special places in their hearts as building blocks for their relationship. November 6th, 2026, they're completing the trifecta by getting married in the same place they met.

Ayla & Robert

we're getting married!

Robert Birkhoff

Ayla Lara

November 6, 2026

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