FAQs
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How do I RSVP? When should I RSVP?
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RSVPs DUE by 07/01/26!!! We can only accommodate guests who have reserved their seats in advance. Please refer to the link on this website to RSVP. If you're having technical issues, please call or text us.
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What's the dress code?
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Formal evening wear is requested (tuxedos, floor-length gowns, suits, or elegant jumpsuits). Picture yourself in a luxurious, vibrant green garden or walking into the Met Gala—you are the moment! Guests are free to wear any color they prefer for a summer wedding. However, if you would like to dress within our wedding's color palette, please refer to the picture above. Please note that since the ceremony will take place on the lawn, be cautious if you choose to wear thin stilettos.
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What time should I arrive?
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The ceremony begins promptly at 3:00 PM in the garden. We recommend arriving by 2:30 PM to mingle and find your seat.
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Is there parking at the venue?
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Yes! The Whitehall Mansion has a large parking lot just a few feet from the venue.
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Where should I stay?
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Please visit the "WHERE TO STAY" tab on our wedding website, where we have listed several hotel options. There are also many Airbnbs in the area; just be sure to check the travel time.
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Is there a shuttle to the venue?
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Unfortunately, we are not able to provide a shuttle from the hotels. We recommend carpooling or using local ride-share services.
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Will there be food for my dietary needs?
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We’ve got you covered! Plus, you'll find delicious vegan and gluten-free options available.
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Can I bring a guest?
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Due to limited seating, please refer to your invitation and attend only with those included on your invitation.
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Can I bring my kids?
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Kids are welcome! Please refer to your invitation and attend only with those included on your invitation.
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Do you have a wedding hashtag?
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#rootedinlove
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Why did it take you so long to get married?
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Next question!
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You have been together for so long, what's the point of a wedding?
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We believe this question reflects cultural norms and expectations. Have you met us? Joy is our last name! Next.
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Are you aware of what's going on in the world? Why throw a wedding?
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We believe that grief and joy can coexist. We prioritize creating safety and belonging through our actions and presence. If our wedding is affecting your sense of safety or belonging in any way, please know that you do not owe us an explanation. What we want most in the world is for you to feel safe! We love you!
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I can't make it. Will you be upset?
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We want to reassure you that if you cannot attend, we completely understand—no hard feelings whatsoever! We recognize how challenging and costly it can be to plan, especially for those traveling from out of state. However, if you’re excited about celebrating this special milestone with us, your presence would not only brighten our day but also create lasting memories that we’ll treasure forever.