FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by February 1, 2025, by texting either the couple or their parents. Kindly let us know if you and any other invited guests will be attending!

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What happens during the wedding day?

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A Hindu wedding is a vibrant and joyous occasion that unites not just the couple, but their families and communities. It blends tradition with celebration, marking the start of a beautiful journey together. Wedding day highlights: - Baraat: The groom arrives at the temple with his family and friends. - Joota Chorne: A playful tradition where the bride’s sisters hide the groom’s shoes, leading to fun negotiations for their return. - Kanyadaan: The bride’s parents formally give her away to the groom, symbolising the union of families. - Mangal Phera: The couple takes seven vows as they walk around a sacred fire. - Sindoor & Mangalsutra: The groom marks the bride as married with sindoor and a sacred necklace. - Bidaai: A heartfelt farewell as the bride leaves her family to begin a new chapter with the groom.

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Is there anything I should know about visiting a Hindu temple?

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Shoes: When visiting a Hindu temple, it's customary to remove your shoes. You will be instructed to remove you shoes and place it in the shoe room downstairs, before proceeding to go upstairs into the temple area. Clothing: Please dress conservatively out of respect for the traditions. We kindly request no low-neck dresses, short skirts, or revealing attire. Opt for elegant, modest outfits that honour the cultural significance of the occasion. Food: All food and drinks (apart from water) can only be consumed in the food hall downstairs.

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Is a Hindu wedding an emotional affair?

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Yes, a Hindu wedding is an emotional affair, especially during ceremonies like kanyadan, saptapadi, and bidaai—but all filled with happy tears!

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What is the layout of the temple?

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The temple is a two-story building designed to accommodate both practical needs and sacred ceremonies. Ground Floor: This is the entrance area, which includes a shoe storage room, toilets, and the food court. Second Floor: The sacred area of the temple, housing the shrine of the gods. This is where the marriage ceremony will take place, so please maintain respect and observe the traditions of this holy space.

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Can I take photos during the ceremony?

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On the wedding day: We kindly ask that no photos be taken during our wedding ceremony, as we’d love for everyone to be fully present in the moment with us. However, feel free to capture memories before or after the wedding ceremony. On the reception day: Take as many photos as you would like – we’d love to see your photos from the celebration!

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Is there parking at the both venues?

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Yes, there is ample parking outside the Hindu temple and Walton View Hotel.

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Will food and drinks be provided?

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Yes! On the wedding day, vegetarian food and non-alcoholic drinks will be served in the food court downstairs following the wedding ceremony. On the reception party, food and alcohol drinks will be served.

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What type of cuisine will be served?

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South Asian Food, of course!

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What is the address for the venues?

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Mehendi day: TBC (Harrogate) Wedding day: Bradford Hindu Temple, 341 Leeds Rd, Bradford BD3 9LS Reception day: Walton View Hotel, Tong Ln, Bradford BD4 0SF

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Can I book a room at Walton View Hotel for the reception day?

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Yes, but the rooms are limited and will be allocated on a first-come, first-served basis. A booking link for the rooms will be sent to you by the couple or their parents, depending on availability.

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What are the closest hotels to stay at for the reception day?

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Most hotels are 10 to 15-minute driving distance from the venue. The closest hotels are: - Tong Hotel (2-minute drive OR 10-minute walk) - Premier Inn Leeds South (Birstall) Hotel (5-minute drive OR 40-minute walk) - Premier Inn Bradford South hotel (8-minute drive OR 1 hour walk)

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I would like to wear South Asian women's clothing, where can I find one?

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If you're a female and would like to wear a Lehenga, Indo-Western outfit, Saree, or Salwar Kameez for the any of the functions, please contact Rina. There may be clothing which you can borrow from Rina or her family for the day (size permitting). Alternatively, there’s a fantastic app called *By Rotation* where you can hire beautiful outfits for the day by searching 'Pakistani/Indian/Asian' or '#Indianlehenga' into the search bar OR the app 'Vinted' is great for affordable finds.